He said over the years the urge has grown stronger, he said he is not attracted to females or males just transexuals from a young boy. He doesn't understand this. Anyone else feel this way and cannot discuss personal feelings with loved ones?
2006-09-18 12:28:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I suggest a psychiatrist for him, and a marriage counsellor for both of you!
2006-09-18 12:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Eric 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a female who has found herself occasionally attracted to transexuals. Male-to-female, female-to-male, it doesn't matter. Somehow the idea of a person with the features of both stimulates the same part of my sexuality that is attracted equally to males and females. Both masculine women, and feminine men are attractive to me... I think your hubby may be a bisexual in disguise...
2006-09-18 19:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Angela M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Therapy won't fix this.He needs to go find him a nice transexual to live out his days with and you need counseling to determine WHY you think you wanna be with someone with this fettish,You can have a real relationship with someone who loves only you.This just doesn't seem to be the one.
2006-09-18 20:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by hippiegirl672003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure this is a phase, he should get out of it soon but the bad thing is maybe he will move on to something worse. I think if your willing both of you should watch the stuff online about his fetish until he just doesn't seem interested anymore... It may work, may hurt but if it hurts then get a sex change or kick his *** to the curb.
2006-09-18 19:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to consider acting a fantasy with him, not involving anyone else, but maybe you dressing up as a man, and as someone else suggested, maybe even trying something with a dildo.
I would try somethnig in this direction, and see what happens. Maybe you can fill this "need".
Good luck
2006-09-18 19:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you still attracted to him? we don't have enough information to base a good answer on. i won't jump to judge that you should dump him...nor grant him his wish (without prejudice).
also, is he attracted to both females and males that are dressing like the other?
if he is only attracted to males dressing as females...he is probably having problems admitting that he is actually gay. again, i don't have enough information to base a solid answer.
i'm not dr. ruth, however, i did stay at a holiday inn express last night!
2006-09-18 19:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by bill loomer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there! Get out as quick as you can. It's not going to get any better. There's probably a lot going on you don't know about, if not there will be. Cut your losses and escape as soon as possible before he brings something home (STD) you can't get rid of.
2006-09-18 19:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by madamom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in a divorce you need to have love for the soulmate and a phisical attraction so the best awnser i would say is that i would get a divorce because if ge is not phisically attracted to you then you need to leave him
2006-09-18 20:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by guess what? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew about this before you got married then its something that you took on board with you for life. If this is something that you did not know about until after you got married then I would leave him. he will if he has not already stray to be with somebody that is transsexual. all the best of luck
2006-09-18 19:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! this is a tough question. I would speak to a counsellor and get some professional advice.
At least he is honest with you! You guys must be close... that's good.
2006-09-18 19:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say sorry love but its not going to happen as long as you are married to me. I suggest you ask him if he would be willing to talk this over with a therapist.
2006-09-18 19:39:30 · answer #11 · answered by Lyn I 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋