This guy I know has dated this one girl for 14 months off and on up until this past march. they didn't talk for the longest time, and now all of a sudden about 3 weeks ago, she starts calling and texting him like it's her job. everyone knows she just wants a date to Homecoming, which she got, but he doesn't see it that way. me and other people try to tell him that he's being played, but he doesn't believe us. i know he still has feelings for her but how on earth can me and the others get him to understand, or can't we get him to understand?
2006-09-18 12:13:55 · 15 answers · asked by uhd0rableo8 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kiss him.
2006-09-18 12:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not butt out and let it play itself out? She may be looking for a date for homecoming, but he may give her a special kiss that night that knocks her socks off and makes her fall for him all over again.
Anything can happen; don't try to run his life.
2006-09-18 19:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a man loves a girl, common sense and intelligence are at the mercy of the female conning him into his actions.
2006-09-18 19:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tones 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to believe, no one can convince him otherwise. It's not a guy thing, it's a human thing. Our ability to deceive ourselves may be the only thing that lets us be happy in the face of futility and certain death.
2006-09-18 19:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by juicy_wishun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually the saying is love is blind.. It takes time for the individual to see the one they loves true colors
2006-09-18 19:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by dalene s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your young, he is young... just live and learn... have fun and don't worry so much... a few broken hearts while young can be good for you... Experience is great!
2006-09-18 19:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asking why guys are clueless is like asking why is the sky blue.
It just is and we just are.
2006-09-18 19:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by Evil Homer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will see it in his own time and there is nothing you can do but be there for him when he does.
2006-09-18 19:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by rucrazy? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who knows. Its not just guys though. I know many girls that are the same way.
2006-09-18 19:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are we without a clue. I don't have the foggiest idea.
2006-09-18 19:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋