Recently our college age teen son came home for the weekend and called at 11 p.m. to say he was spending the night at his girlfriends house in town. The girl who is a senior is high school lives with her grandmother. Just wondering what everyone thought.
2006-09-18 11:47:44 · 12 answers · asked by b's wife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I do not think you have too much to worry about. Hey your son asked most parents can not even get that. If you rasied him to be smart and honest like it seems you are fine. Have a talk with him and make sur he understands staying protected and remind him that his girl has to finish school
2006-09-18 11:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Teee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't funny. I've worked in law offices that defend criminals since the late 1970's and many teenagers are charged with Sexual Assault of A Minor when having sex with other teenagers. Check the law in your state to see if they both meet age requirements to make sure he isn't setting himself up to be charged with Sexual Assault. The other question you need to ask is why this girl's grandmother is allowing the girl's boyfriend to spend the night with her in their home? Your son needs to step back and look realistically at this situation. If she is underage, he could be in really serious trouble. If she isn't underage, he should have more respect for her and her grandmother to even consider staying the night with her.
2006-09-18 11:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by LadyLgl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly if he's college age how can you tell him what he can and can't do? my parents and i have always had an open relationship because i behave as an adult and they treat me as an adult. so when i lived with my parents as a college age teen i'd spend the night with my younger girlfriend all the time. who knows if they did anything but at some point you should treat him as you would an adult. i'm sure it's not quite so easy but he's old enough to know better and not get himself into a bad situation.
2006-09-18 12:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by adman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of potential for trouble even if they are in separate rooms. The girl's grandmother can't keep an eye on both of them all the time.
I guess the bottom line here is do you think your son will try anything or will he behave?
2006-09-18 11:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by young_at_heart_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on their relationship. I was in love with a 15 year old when I was 17 and we spent all day together, I helped her father fix his cars etc and was close with the family so I stayed the night on the couch every once and a while and went up north with them.
2006-09-18 11:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
College kid and a high school senior!? Is granny on the dope? It is a fact that many young people have sex, however i think it is a bad idea to provide them with the place to do it. Granny Sex Me Up needs to have a competency test.
2006-09-18 15:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your son is college aged you cant control him, but i think it is a horrible idea to let a boy spend the night at his girlfriends house especially when they cant be supervised very well.
2006-09-18 11:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by rlt101010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i grew to become into aloud to sleep over at my boyfriends abode while i grew to become into sixteen, yet there have been circumstances. My mom(single parent) communicate with the mum and dad of my boyfriend first. the regulations have been, we weren't aloud to sleep interior the comparable room, and we had to pass to mattress at 1am that way we could no longer say we fell asleep jointly. truthfully it did no longer end us from having intercourse, whether it made us extra careful approximately it. And the only reason I slept over at his abode grew to become into by way of fact we had an prolonged distance dating. i'm now married(to no longer the comparable guy)and have a son. i be responsive to while he's the right age i will permit him have sleepovers of the different intercourse, yet they are going to be in separate rooms and have a mattress time. I additionally plan to chat to him approximately intercourse and its achieveable outcomes, by way of fact whether he's advised to attend probability is he won't. i think of as long as you have an open dating young ones will make the attempt to make the mind-blowing decision.
2016-10-01 03:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not? Toss in a bag of Trojans and watch the action.
2006-09-18 11:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ekatyerina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK IN MY OPINION ITS DISRESPECTFUL BUT IF HER GRANDMOTHER WAS OKAY ABOUT IT I GUESS ITS OK THE QUESTION IS...HOW DO U FEEL ABOUT YOUR SON SPENDING THE NITE OVER THERE ?
2006-09-18 11:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by sadgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋