during sex.
the male being pleased but not me?
2006-09-18 11:31:38 · 50 answers · asked by nae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What does a woman say after 3 orgasms....
I'm a man, how would I know???
2006-09-18 11:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY- if it's okay with YOU. Let's face it, we ALL have days when- for whatever reason- we don't feel like "doing it"-but our partner DOES. If you don't mind helping him to get his needs met (or- vice versa), then go for it (consider it a nice "gift" to your lover- to be returned at a later date. ). But if one of you is going "without" -& the other is just suffering through it to "keep the peace" or keep the relationship going- then it NOT okay. -And the relationship has serious "issues". Sex, with love- is a two way street. You're BOTH entitled to enjoy it- and NOT at the others expense. If either of you has a "problem" with how or how often you share it, - then it should be worked out between you before it grows into a much bigger problem. This is what a REAL partnership- is all about. Good luck.
2006-09-18 11:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. No. There's no point in having sex unless all parties are satisfied.
2. A lazy partner has no excuse not to please you. Give him the boot and find a new lover.
3. Men just need to be told what you like. You need to ask him what he likes, also. It's good to communicate rather than going with meaningless repetitive friction to an area that doesn't do it for you. Sex is a time to let go and enjoy and love.
Good luck and warm regards.
2006-09-18 11:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends. Men are in the mood as they say more then females. A lot of women some times just want forplay and want to be held. Some men don't know how to make women orgasm. Some women don't know what an orgasm feels like. Do you most of the time want forplay only? If so he may not know you are in the mood for an orgasm.
2006-09-18 11:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she is okay with it. And I mean -really- okay with it, not just understanding or accepting. And even then, only occassionally. If both partners are not satisfied at least most of the time, someone is doing something wrong.
2006-09-18 11:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by juicy_wishun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion no. I rather see my lady pleased. For me it isn't just sex. It's giving your mind, body, love, and soul to your lover. So when I make love to her I want her to have the best sex ever. I want her to reach peaks of ecstacy she's never had before. For some reason just seeing her pleased after an evening of love making is enough for me. Cuddling afterwards is good too.
2006-09-18 11:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by shinuyugi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is fine, but then again I am the male partner being pleased...
2006-09-18 11:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that is very typical for the guy to be happy so next time dump the guy and get a guy that will take care of your needs too LOL !!
2006-09-18 11:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only OK as long as he's dips on you who wants a chick that doesn't respond how do you know it is his fault(kidding).Think of it like a race first one there wins.I say get there first then get up and leave before he is done.I bet you want have to worry about getting rid of him that will take care of itself.
2006-09-18 11:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by sjwest74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell naw gurl u better not let hiz azz stop til u atleast get yo'z once. Or else u need to find another man or introduce him to toys or tell him to service u before he starts
2006-09-18 11:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋