i really like this guy(my ex) we broke up about 4 months ago nd i thought i didnt like him but then when i saw him in school i jus fell into him again. its jus how he is. hez so cute and soo sweet and nice to me. he flirts with me but i dont know if that shows if he feels the same way. i dont want my friends to ask him if he likes me because it will seem suspicious. I NEED ADVICE!
thx for nebody who answered me question i really really appriciate it. much love!
2006-09-18 11:18:49 · 6 answers · asked by {.:*jugurl*:.} 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on how you two broke up. Was it a terrible break up where the two of you argued? Did one of you cheat? If you were once an item and you just decided to go separate ways, I would think that you would be comfortable enough to ask him if he still has feelings for you because you have feelings for him. He may have another girl if he's nonchalant, yet nice to you. How does he treat other girls? You have to take all of these things into consideration. But I would definitely watch how he interacts with other women. If he's as equally flirtatious then you have less of a chance at getting back with him (if that's your goal).
But you can alleviate all of the this and just tell him that you were wrong, and you want him back. There's nothing wrong with a little humility.
2006-09-18 11:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that likes u stares at u for a while and if ur with a group of friends, one if his friends will come up to u and ask for ur name. The type of stare is not the scary stare. He smiles at u. U also have to look for the chemistry like when u walk into a room and ur eyes lock into each other its an adrenaline rush. U both sit down and have a fantastic conversation and he looks at ur eyes only. He doesn't look at ur chest, he just looks at the way u speak, and at the end of the night he asks u to go out and u give him ur number. Remember that this is a respectful type of guy. Don't go after a guy that says, Ur so sexy, so hot etc. These guys just want the piece!
2006-09-18 11:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him. I know its tough.. and could be embarassing but its really the best thing to do. And for goodness sakes -- get involved in some other activities at school!!! chances are you will find someone else who is just as fine as he is. But... also... keep in mind that at your age while a having a bf is a status thing.. you should be going out with as many different boys as you can so you can figure out what you like and what you don't...
take it easy have fun... and just talk to the boy!
2006-09-18 11:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friends first is regularly the superb way for an enduring dating. you already be responsive to each and each others likes and dislikes, what makes you chuffed, what makes you unhappy and you will communicate overtly and truthfully. I actual have had the comparable concern and that i'm lots older than you, have confidence me. ;) pay interest to his reactions once you flirt a splash or hint around incredibly and notice how he reacts, you're able to be waiting to ascertain him. My superb buddy has grew to become out to be a great guy and that i does no longer substitute our dating for one instantaneous.
2016-10-01 03:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no specific way to tell. But seeing that he's your ex, go ahead and ask him if he still likes you, or flirt a little bit. What's the worst that can happen? Just curious, if he's soooo sweet, why did you break up? Think about it throughtly before persuing.
2006-09-18 11:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you'll ever know the truth is just by talking to him. Ask him how he feels, and put your feelings on the line for him, show him how you really feel!...If it's meant to be, It'll happen.
2006-09-18 11:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋