Is she asking me out?A friend just asked me this in my e-mail?

Question

A new friend just asked me this in my e-mail , we just gave each other our contacts a few days ago, although we spoke before class sevral times and enjoyed our conversations, is she asking me out,here's what she send "Hey, Julio do you want to hang out maybe saturday at Munky Lounge? Its at hoboken. I know the name sounds weird, but its fun I promise. Let me know."
if yes, is she desperate , she's asking me out right after few days we exchanged contacts?
what do you men/women think?

Answer 1

She might not be asking you out, like in a dating sense. Maybe she wants to hang out as friends. Maybe she does want to date you. What does it matter, if you like her go have fun! If not, tell her no.

Answer 2

She's asking you out in a low-stakes kind of way. She's not sure if she wants to just be friends or would like to date you, or how you feel about her, so this is a way for you both to get to know each other better. It might pay though to ask her if anyone else will be joining you - if other people are going too, it's less like a date and more like friends hanging out. My suggestion: go, and get to know her, and then you'll have a better idea if you want to date her.

And no, she's not desperate, she's just a normal modern woman.

Answer 3

I don't think she's desperate, think of it this way maybe she thought you were worth the time to hang out with on a Saturday. She could just be wanting to get to know you better. If something else results from your hanging out it does, but doesn't everyone start out by getting to know each other as friends first.

Answer 4

Why would she be desperate. Maybe she thinks your cute and funny. Maybe she likes you. But maybe she just wants a new friend. Think about it... Have you ever caught her smiling at you when she thought you weren't looking? Or does she move in closer when you are talking to one another? Does she touch your arm when shes saying something? Those are all signs that she likes you. And because she asks you to hang out doesn't mean shes desperate by any means.

Answer 5

She's giving you an opportunity to hang out with her. And it's an opportunity for her to know you better. She's told you where she's gonna be, and has asked if you'd like to hang out. Do you like her enough to want to get to know her better?? She's waving you in, go hang with her and see what develops. Don't read anything into it at this point. She's interested, and wants to know more. She's not desperate, just curious about you.

Answer 6

What's wrong withyou Julio?
Is there a problem with that?
Don't think she is desperate, maybe she saw desperation in your face, or maybe you look nice enough to do it, or she is too shy, or whatever, don't make ilusions or anyway tell her that the way she asked you out is not right!!!
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come on!!!

Answer 7

Yes, she's asking you out. And No - she's not necessarily desperate. Maybe she just likes you and wants to get to know you better. You are thinking too much!

Answer 8

this isnt nessesarily asking you out. maybe she just wants to hang out and get to know you better. she isnt desperate or anything and maybe shes only interested in you as a friend. you never know, but the best way to find out is to reply" yes id love to" and see what happens.

Answer 9

I wouldn't freak out like she's asking you out on a date, but she aparently finds you charming enough to want to get to know you better.

It's not a date, nor does it say she's desperate, it's just a chance to hang out after class.

Answer 10

Yes she is asking you out.

No, she is not desperate. Just wants to get to know you.

Don't screw this up...She's really interested.

I don't believe in that playing hard to get crap...this is the new millennium. Its okay to put the first foot forward.