He stresses me out to the point of losing weight and losing my hair. He has no trust or faith in me or us for that matter. And he can have girls calling him at all hours of the day saying their his 'homegirls', but if my guy friends phone numbers that I hung out with before are in my phone(they don't even have to call me) he accuses me of being with them. My friends just like his were in my life before he was I would stop talking to my friends, but he can't seem to put his 'girl' friends aside. We have a son together and I can't go on much longer like this. Someone please advice. Desperate for some enlightenment.
2006-09-18 11:12:21 · 13 answers · asked by pezzle9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, he's asked me to meet with him. What should I do? Should I? If I do what do I do? Or say? HELP...
2006-09-18 12:28:37 · update #1
Girl, get tha hell out of that bs you can not even call that a relationship. You are so unhappy you are lower yourself and for what ....someone who does not respect you. I understand the baby situation but look at the stats half of the families today are not both real mom and dad. Do yourself a favor and eventually depart yourself from him. Believe me I have heard plenty stories like this and NONE of them end up good.
2006-09-18 11:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Teee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u try to talk this over with him cause one of the basic and most important things in a relationship should be communication if you have then u can give him a warning that Ur leaving but don't say it just to scare him if u say it do it or else he will think that Ur only playing with him and that u will never do it. But think it over if u can not take it anymore than its time for u to leave. Well good luck.bye.
2006-09-18 18:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by shy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. You don't need that and especially not the stress he's putting you through. He's not worth it so get out of the relationship and live at peace with your son. In the long run, it's also best for your son because you don't want him exposed to that sort of environment. Good Luck!
2006-09-18 18:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is not a sign of how much someone loves, it's a sign of insecurity. If he cannot trust you then there cannot be a good relationship. You must take care of yourself so you can take care of your son. Someone who cares for you would not make you choose him or your friends. The normal thing would that he and your friends would get along! He doesn't sound good for you. File for full custody, and move on!!
2006-09-18 18:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by seaelen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you, and a pathetic hipocrate. He accuses you because its his defense mechanism for cheating on you, i.e. you can't accuse him because he accuses you first. Tell that childish buffoon to get out of your life and start paying child support. Get to the department of family services and file paperwork to make him pay support. Even if he doesnt have a job, the money still gets tacked on to what he owes, and he will have to pay until your child is at least 18. Then he can be really stressed because you are taking his money and spending it on your child and new boyfriend.
2006-09-18 18:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie if he's making you more unhappy than happy then why do you need a answer? Girl you can do better, don't stick with someone who can't do for you but make you unhappy.I know you're trying to stick with him because of your son but you don't want your son to grow up and be like him. Get yourself someone else , I know you have to much respect for yourself to stay in that position.
2006-09-18 18:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by meisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your son and leave. tonight. If not tonight after he goes to work tomorrow.
Leave him a note telling him why you are leaving and go someplace safe that has people - parents? friends? relative? but leave tonight.
you have already answered your own question. You need to leave.
2006-09-18 18:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and get child support. He seems to have control issues.
2006-09-18 18:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of this relationship as fast as you can,take your son and move.Its nothing but trouble your headed for, if you stay with this guy.
2006-09-18 18:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey what a kinda for guy is he.. just get rid of him from your life.. its not good to continue with him anymore
2006-09-18 18:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋