When a girl whom you love the most and it is almost impossible for you to live without her puts conditions like high income, car, big house etc. for accepting your love-what will you do?
2006-09-18 11:04:42 · 15 answers · asked by laughing_room 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like you really love this girl. My heart goes out to you. Don't you think that when you love someone you should love them unconditionally? That you don't lay down conditions and demand material things as a test of love? I know you would not like to hear this but my brother, but she doesn't really love you. Tell me if you don't think you deserve someone who loves you although you are the richest guy in the world but if by some misfortune, you lost all your wealth, but she will stay by your side and love you all the same? You deserve that, nothing less, but this girl is not treating you like that. It is not impossible to live without this girl. Just think that she loves your wealth NOT you. You sound like a really sweet guy and there are many girls out there who would love to be with you. Remember that when you really love someone you are supposed to be with them through richer or poorer, for better or worse. Give this girl an ultimatum. Tell her that you love her unconditionally and you want the same from her else you will call it quits although you don't really want to.
2006-09-19 04:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Hema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in your question itself! When it is almost impossible to live without her and sells her love for high income, car, big house etc. it is you to decide as to whether her love is based on trust to make your married life happy and enjoyable. True love is not conditional but sacrificial based on mutual trust and faith. Be cautious in your approach. Good luck!
2006-09-18 11:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by SRIRANGAM G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start using the head above the waistline to think. The girl is a gold-digger. She wants to be provided for in luxury no less. If she cannot see her way clear to accept your love as it comes, then forget her. Find someone who will love you for you.
And for record you CAN live without her, she's just telling you, you can't.
2006-09-18 11:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore.U can not live ur life with a person who is accepting u for ur money and not what ever u r.It is good that she put forward her demands right in the beginning.Thank God.
2006-09-18 12:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by SR BODA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she is just not saying all this bcz she also love u a lot and she just want only u too be something in socity and thinks may be if she dose like tht u might change and start concentrating in ur carear and feels u are capable of all tht .......Rest u must be knwing better for her ,,,If it is nt like tht then i will say just forget tht girls she might not be worthy of ur love ....
2006-09-18 12:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by koni1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she indirectly giving hint to you that she dont like you. she is lying. perhaps she is expecting much more love and effection. check for real love. if it is not there please leave you will get better option in future. you must be proud of your good heart. she should feel oneday verymuch since love is powerful than money and status. you r in far better condition than her. stay away for two months. dont answer anything and see the reation. u have to be serios it will work out . use vairagya and visit asram take new friends from yss of india. go to guru and god . take blessings. day is yours not hers. be strong for atleast for onemonth. allthebest.
2006-09-18 13:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If she wants those things she can get a really good job and buy them herself or be some rich old guy's trophy wife.
2006-09-18 11:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a great catch to me--YOU should be the most imprtant thing on her mind.
2006-09-18 11:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by dawnee_babe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is unconditional
2006-09-19 05:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Abhijat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get it all for her. Before she flies off with her NRI.
2006-09-18 11:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋