I have known this guys for 2 years. We both like each other, but we are looking for 2 different things. I want a relationship and he is just looking for sex. I told him I want more then just sex. We have been fighting about is for like 4 months now. Is it time for me to let him go?
2006-09-18 11:04:08 · 23 answers · asked by Jackie-O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is...guys always want sex. It won't work out if you are not willing to give it up.
2006-09-18 11:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by want it bad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO you want a guy that values your friendship or what's between your legs? Doesn't matter how long you've known him...His interest is obvious...are you being oblivious? You're the only one that knows what's really behind this friendship and if he's really worth it. But think about it...i'm sure there is a much more attractive person who's not remotely interested in sex...((duh he is he's just not going to tell you)) and will value you as a whole!! Good luck girl, and think about it. Have some pride and dignity.
2006-09-18 11:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by LadyD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Time to go your own way.
I know it's difficult and what happens in situations like this is that we women think that if we just give the jerk a little more time, maybe he'll come around.
Guess what? He won't while you stay.
If you leave and he truly cares about you, he may make an effort to have a relationship. If not, you've cut him loose before he dumps you.
2006-09-18 11:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! this is the same thing im going through.he said the only reason i couldnt be his girlfriend was becasue im waiting till marriage and i was looking for a real relationship. Just let him go! If he loved u he would stay just for u. Sex will only make u more attached to this guy. Hes only looking for one thing and he will do whatever it takes to get it. Thankfully i never fell for his game and im proud of myself. I know u really like this guy and it hurts to just leave but sometimes we have to let go of things that arent good for us at all.Hope that helps and look for a real guy that will respect u and love u because u deserve better! :)
2006-09-18 11:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by deanda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do the two of you not believe each other? You are certainly a patient soul. You can put that in your resume. I'm a guy but certainly wouldn't waste me emotional energy trying to get another to do something they say they don't want to do--there are probably four good solid ones that went by in the meantime.
2006-09-18 11:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't respect what u want then u dont need 2 be with him. LET HIM GO child and dont waste your time on him cuz u can find someone who is looking 4 the same thing u're looking 4. TRUST ME. . .He aint worth it.
2006-09-18 11:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by Baby G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hy hons gay partners steeviie, and davey hons, hmm lets ee here two years have flown bye hons, and you are just finding out you like each other hm okay not in love hons?? afteer two years, you want a committment right hons settle downe?? marriage hons?? and hes not ready too settle downe just using you for sex right hons just the big bang in your bed and he up leaves says bye?? and out of that 2 years you have fought for 4 months, straight??? this relatioship, is over with hons after two years and knock drag out fights for 4 months hit the highways its over with pack bags first sit downe with him hons in private dont have him touch you look him straight in the eye and say hons this is itt iam, leaving hitting the highways its over with, i have had itt say your good bye turn out the lights on this clunker hit that lonesome highway hons!!
2006-09-18 11:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, you have given it a chance more than long enough. It is time to move on. His mind set is, why buy the cow when the milk is free. Sorry
2006-09-18 11:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for the looks of it i come from south central and most guy do that here and hey man he dose not like you he just wants some and a guy like that is not worth it if he really liked you you guys would not even have this argument he dose not respect you and if you do it you dont respect your selfe where is your pride girl
2006-09-18 11:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by im lookin 4 my romeo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. If you make him make a commitment to you and he doesn't feel it you may be hurt in the long run. Just let him go.
2006-09-18 11:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by SEXY 818 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋