total cheater!! he told her that he had to study but i caught him making out with my other friend, who has been friends with me and my friend (who is being cheated on) since we were 3. the boyfriend saw me and begged me not to tell but i really want to... so should tell my friend or keep the deal. P.S this boy my friend is dating is very special to her and i don't want to break her heart. and she will beleive cause i video taped them making out on my phone! shoulld i spill or not??? help! plz!
2006-09-18 11:02:03 · 24 answers · asked by BAMF!(: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOT ... SHE WILL FIND OUT EVENTUALLY
2006-09-18 11:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by jack jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have proof spill the beans remeber proof is very important. if he or the friend he was making out with cared so much they wouldn't have done it so you are left with the ball in your court you need to tell her because if he'll make out with someone else now what will he do next just say you want to show her something and she'll do the rest let her make her own decision on what she should do you brought her the proof the rest is up to her you are a good best friend
2006-09-18 11:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by icandi22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not be breaking your friend's heart her BF will. It's not your fault he's cheating on her. He is the cheater and NOT you. If your friend finds out that her BF is cheating on her and you knew then she will ask why you didn't tell her. Yes you should tell your girl friend. If he anybody else tries to blame you for his problems that's too bad. It just means they are too immature to take responsibility. for their own actions. They will want to make you out to be the bad girl. But you need to do the right thing.
2006-09-18 11:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by jesus_lover1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of you were any kind of friend show her what you seen. Dont listen to him.He is just looking out for himself. If hes cheating on her then hes going to continue cheating on her is you dont let her know. The sooner you tell her,,the sooner she will get over him. And she will be hurt by this but as her friend you can be there for her when shes feeling sad. You have got to tell her. Wouldnt you want to know if you were getting cheated on?
2006-09-18 11:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! If that is your friend dont stand around and let her get hurt. If she finds out on her own and she knows that u knew and u didn't tell her. . . she will be MORE PISSED at u than anyone else cuz u're her friend. SO TELL HER. . any dude that cheats on her she shouldn't be with and u need 2 let her know the 411 ASAP.
2006-09-18 11:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by Baby G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should tell her before she likes him more then ever! thats the least a friend could do. if he did that to her now he will do it again later. and i dont think that u want her to go threw all that. just tell her and u wont have to feel bad about keeping this from ur friend. good luck
2006-09-18 11:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by darkvamp4542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think..This guy cheated on your friend and your friend didnt do anything im guessing.
So tell her the truth..She deserves to know..If you dont she will end up finding out on her own and it will hurt her more knowing you kept it from her.
2006-09-18 11:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by My-Feelings-Inside 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her because if she finds out in the future.
It'll brake her heart more knowing that you were supposed to be her friend and didn't tell her.
2006-09-18 11:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by Shantel J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL TELL TELL! she's gonna find out one way or another and i think this is the best way for her to find out... even tho its gonna hurt, it'll hurt more if she finds them making out or if she hears from some random person at school or something.. its best if you just tell her yourself and as soon as possible.. good luck :-)
oh! and kick that guy right in the balls! lol he deserves it!
2006-09-18 11:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Juno. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront HIM with it.
He will beg and plead for you not to tell, and you can probably get some money out of him or something.
2006-09-18 11:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should force the other so called friend to tell. I would tell him to tell her or you will make sure she finds out.
2006-09-18 11:05:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋