2006-09-18 11:01:30 · 13 answers · asked by JustLynn 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
2006-09-18 11:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by my world 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Balance in knowing weather to persist in approaching, or soliciting people or to move on to better contacts is very important. Often times we are preocupied with chasing something that isn't real. As a matter or fact, when ever we find ourselves chasing something, we can be certain it is enfatuation. The only time we would chase something is when we know the reason for which we are doing it. However in that scenario, it doesn't feel like chasing, it feels more like work. That is work which is hard to do, vs. enfatuation which is pleasurable but doesn't produce lasting results.
The problem with obsession or emphatuation is almost always in that we become involved in chasing something while there are other opportunities prospect that will treat us right. When ever you are obsesively chasing someone, you know you are neglecting something else. Pinpointing what that is entails the essence of maintaining balance. Before deploring energy on chasing something, an equal amount of effort should be allocated towards varifying what is the right thing for you to chase.
Sources:
Persistance vs. balance
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=Being_persistent_vs._letting_the_people_come_to_you
Balance
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=Balance
Infatuation
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=Infatuation
2006-09-18 11:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there needs to be more info here but in any relationship if one is dragging their feet and other is very motavated to get closer then by all means show up on his door step and give him the works . let him know with no misunderstanding that your wanting him .the worst that can happen is youll find out hes not interested and isnt that better than sitting at home waiting and wondering . then you can go forwards with the relationship or look in different direction which ever happens . theres no rule that a women cant take charge when man is dragging his feet on getting together . ive had it happen to me and i liked it but im sorry to say i didnt take advantage and now i wished i had but oh well live and learn i guess . point is go get your man and be brave and if you get turned away then be proud you tryed and its his loss.
2006-09-18 11:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-18 11:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Josh S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Do it in a trenchcoat with nothing on underneath.
He will be very surprised.
2006-09-18 11:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know the situation you may just be in for a great surprise . he may be in with someone or doing other things and you might get him upset.
2006-09-18 11:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-18 11:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show up for what? are you assuming that he is cheating? what are you trying to pop up for
2006-09-18 11:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's hard to answer this question without very many details...
2006-09-18 11:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey he got the car, tell him to pick you up,
2006-09-18 11:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by sh_ptrsn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋