Why is it wrong to order food for a girl?

Question

I'm not sexist or anything, but girls can't make decisions. I dont want to sit there for 10 minutes while they decide. Help me out here.

sidenote: I dont think they should vote either (in state or federal elections. Their votes should go to either their father or husband. But in all fairness, they get to choose whether its the father or husband.

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Answer 1

I think it's fun to make feminists angry if that's what you're trying to accomplish.

Answer 2

are we feeling lonely and craving a little attention today? Trying to stir up the pot because you are bored and have nothing better to do. You know, there are so many productive things you could be doing right now.
I am female and I tend to tick off a lot of feminazis because I believe that women should stop trying to be men and stop belittling and stealing men's authority- but this is rich, let me tell you. I have to live in this world and my ability to run my household in an orderly manner is affected by what goes on out in the world- I have every right to have a say so in how this country is run.
Women are not lesser than men and until you learn to be respectful and considerate of women may no woman ever give you a second glance!

Answer 3

Well until you got to the part about the voting I thought you were serious. Some ladies enjoy having a gentleman order for them, others do not. A gentleman usually ask, "May I order for you".
Then there is the voting thing so your just a jerk and I hope you are no ones husband or father.

Answer 4

OK, I was going to say it is not wrong for a man to order for a woman if he knows what she likes and clears it with her first. But after reading your sidenote I am deeply offended. You think that women should not vote??!! Did you miss the whole equal rights thing. I am appalled that people still think this way. Do you also believe that women should not have access to higher education and not be able to own property??!! I really can't say enough about how crazy this sounds to me.

Answer 5

There is absolutely nothing wrong with ordering for a girl; for a grown woman even. Now if by "girl" you mean "woman" it is perfectly acceptable to ask her to allow you to suggest something for her. You could say, " Maybe you would like the ( fill in the blank)" If she consents don't order the cheapest thing on the menu! Order something that you would enjoy yourself. Now that you have ordered for her be a proper gentleman and pay the bill and tip the waiter.

Answer 6

I've known guys to be like this, can't decide what to order.

Tell her when you get there, or beforehand, that you hate it when people take more than 10 minutes to pick out what they want to eat. Remind her when you're there.

Oh, yeah - don't forget to tell her WHY you hate that - many people take YEARS to get this - tell her its because it helps you get your food sooner and that that is important to you.

Then, when you can't take it any more, call the waiter and start placing your order.

If she STILL can't decide, tell him to go ahead and get your order while she sits there and can take all the time she wants. Tell him you want it as soon as it's ready (or he might wait to bring it until hers is ready) regardless of hers.

Usually, the woman will go ahead and quickly figure out what she wants when the waiter's there. But, like I said, if she's STILl hesitating, but acting like she wants to order or whatever, just take charge and tell him what YOU'D like to do. Don't try to control her choice - she can take as loooooong as she wants - she'll finally figure out that it means she has to wait longer for her food. Which quite frankly she probably doesn't care all that much, because women are there for the EXPERIENCE, the atmosphere, the opportunity to be alone with you and talk and get your attention, etc. They figure they can go eat any time they want anyway, no big deal.

Answer 7

I don't know you but I think that's bs. I don't take 10 mins. to decide. I eat like a man, and order what I feel like. Sorry you have no patience for women. I hope the women you know have no patience for you. WE live in AMERICA that means I get to vote! When we kick your piece of crap a** to Saudi Arabia, you can vote with all the other "men".

Answer 8

it depends on if the women old-fashioned or more modern. Some women are more modern and a feminist and will feel offended if you order for them because it is like saying they are helpless and need a man to do things for them say like order food while others are more traditional and like a man that will take charge and do things for them they view this as being a strong man as well as being polite and being a gentleman. It really depends on how the women is whether she is more modern or traditional if you talk to her and get to know her or already know her you can usually tell. the best way when in doubt is to just ask her if doing this will offend her

Answer 9

ROFL ROFL ROFL. . .I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you posted this just to laugh when people get all offended. I just dont believe anyone could be ridiculous enough to actually believe that trash.

P.S. Next time you're on a date, I hope she orders a meal for you. After all, you don't really need a say in anything.

Answer 10

everyone calm down. he's just sharing his opionion. Its ok. His thoughts honestly wont change the voting process but atleast it was a good laugh. About the food thing though? I personally order quickly. SOme other people may be different. Deal with it.

Answer 11

I like when my husband orders my food when we go to a nice restaurant, but I tell him what to order for me.

Side note: I think you are acting sexist in making your comments, "girls can't make decisions" and "I dont think they should vote"

Here is a definition of a sexist for you, "Sexism is commonly considered to be discrimination and/or hatred against people based on their sex rather than their individual merits, but can also refer to any and all systemic differentiations based on the sex of the individuals."

This definition of discriminating against the female sex instead of individual merits makes it quite clear you are sexist in your remarks.