Is My life over? Girls Please Answer!?

Question

Ok I am a freshman in HS and for the past week i told my friend (sarah) that i thought this Junior liked me because he (or atleast i thought so) would always look at me. So i told her that i thought he liked me, i dont know him, and that i thought he was cute but i was not crazy about him. Then when i saw the boys myspace, i found out that he had a girlfriend so i was like "whatever" so i just dropped it and forggot about him because he was already taken.I guess comes to find out my friend Sarah knows that boys sister and told her everything that i told her, and the sister told him everything, i guess he was really nice about it but he just said that he did not like me and that he has a girlfriend, ect. Wow what is your opinon.
P.s.- When I confronted Sara about why she told them that she said that i said that it was ok. What? Ok? She is really messed up in the head. lol. I cant believe it because i am very close friends with sara for 2 years.

Answer 1

Is My life over? Girls Please Answer!?

Ok I am a freshman in HS and for the past week i told my friend (sarah) that i thought this Junior liked me because he (or atleast i thought so) would always look at me. So i told her that i thought he liked me, i dont know him, and that i thought he was cute but i was not crazy about him. Then when i saw the boys myspace, i found out that he had a girlfriend so i was like "whatever" so i just dropped it and forggot about him because he was already taken.I guess comes to find out my friend Sarah knows that boys sister and told her everything that i told her, and the sister told him everything, i guess he was really nice about it but he just said that he did not like me and that he has a girlfriend, ect. Wow what is your opinon.
P.s.- When I confronted Sara about why she told them that she said that i said that it was ok. What? Ok? She is really messed up in the head. lol. I cant believe it because i am very close friends with sara for 2 years.

Answer 2

It sounds like Sarah was just absentminded and misunderstood what you said, or else she was trying to help you. Don't be too upset at her, but don't trust her with many secrets in the future.

Meanwhile, it sounds like the boy was nice about it, so if you're lucky he won't tell a lot of other people - though you should expect he'll tell his girlfriend. You could consider apologizing to him if you wanted, you might become better friends as a result, and always have a funny story to tell. But since he's not making a big deal of it, you can safely drop the subject and expect that everyone will forget it in a few weeks.

Answer 3

Your life isn't over. You're not going to die.Your hair won't fall out over this. Just find some better friends, you'll make Sarah jealous and she'll either shut her mouth or talk about you more because she's jealous that she doesn't have real friends because she tells people everything. Stuff like this always happens in highschool. You should just expect it to happen. And don't worry about a boyfriend, I'm sure you'll find some really cool guy soon enough and forget about the other one. The stuff that happens in high school won't be as bad as you think it is when you're in college. Make the most of it.

Answer 4

Hi Jonie,
My daughter went through the same thing. It's OK to like some one older than you as long as they are within your age range. Now for your friend she should of told you that she knows his family and would try to see if he is available and hook you up. But it sounds like she liked him and he didn't know, and she wanted to tell the sister because she knew that it would get back to the brother and she would be the first to get a response from him. Remember you can't tell someone that suppose to be your so called friend anything that you don't want to come back to you. Test every one that you call your friend first and see if what you tell them comes back to you. Then after a while you will know, because you have only told that person. A true friend will never turn their backs on you no matter what you are going through. They will be there for you in good and bad times. Make sure if you like a boy, that your friends or should i say associates have no interest in him. Don't worry you are still young and this is only the beginning for you. I hope when you start to fall in love with some one and you become disappointed that you have a shoulder to cry on, Because there will be many days you will feel like this.

Answer 5

the first thing u should do is beat sara's *** 4 telling other people about what u 2 said in private 2 each other. so now on if u like some1 don't tell sara 4 all u know the whole school will be buzzing about it. and oh yeah ur life isn't over honey ur just a freshman in hs enjoy the time.

Answer 6

Trust me your life isn't over. High school really is a time to have fun and make friends, but it isn't by any means a thing that will ruin your life. Just as my friends and I had good times and bad, so will you. People will forget about this, sooner than later. My friends and I have only been out of high school since 2002 (this will be our 5 yr in May), and we can't remember who the Prom King and Queen were when we graduated. That is supposed to be SO important and look not even 5 years and we can't remember.

Answer 7

You'll be fine believe me I grauated high school ten years ago and to be honest I really don't know anyone that I use to hang out with in high school. Life goes on and I am sure That now everything is out in the air it won't be so bad because jnow you know that sarais someone that you can't relay on to keep personal things from other people, I mean don't stop being her friend over something silly like that just becareful with the personal information

Answer 8

It may seem like it , but your life is not over yet, this may be the first of many tough encounters and betrayals, it happens every day. try and talk it out with your friend, everyone makes mistakes. Coming from someone older and wiser, been there, done that, this seems much worse to you than it really is to everyone else. There will be new gossip before the weekend gets here! :)

Answer 9

That's horrible!! BUT, as my grandma used to say, "This too shall pass." In other words, it won't even be an issue next week, probably.

If I were you, I would not act any differently at all at school. No giggling, scowling, whatever. Just pretend it never happened.

And I'd NOT be trusting Sarah with any more information.

Answer 10

Hey, Jonie... well, you certainly learned the hard way that Sarah has a big mouth, huh? Don't share things with her that you don't want everyone to know. Keeps you protected.

No, your life is not over. If you really want things to be cool with the guy, go up to him and tell him, "thanks for how you handled things. I didn't mean to put you in a bad spot." He will appreciate you caring enough to let him know how you feel directly and you will not die of embarrassment when you see him in the future.