are guys realli as scared and nervous to talk to a girl as girls are scared and nervous to talk to a guy? and are guys scared of rejection as well
2006-09-18 10:39:35 · 19 answers · asked by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rejection really sux a lot. Not that i have ever been rejected by a girl. As you get older it becomes much easier to talk to the opposite sex. I have some great friends who are girls and I hav no problem talking to them. When it comes to asking a girl out tho, then it does become nerve racking because you are opening up your self to be hurt, by being rejected. But as the saying goes, "where there"s no risk, there's no reward". Hope this helps.
2006-09-18 10:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time yes. When a guy has to come up to you and initiate a conversation, he has left himself wide open to rejection and/or humilitation. It is nice to know that girls are nervous also.
2006-09-18 17:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience when dealing with guys they are just as scared and nervous when talking to females as we are to them.
2006-09-18 17:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by lovelyaquariusfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fear of rejection is not a gender based phenomenon. We all feel it and it is only through time and experience that we learn to overcome this fear and to approach the opposite sex. Just remember we all feel fear and we all hate rejection. But unless someone takes the first step we will never dance.
2006-09-18 17:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by tom4texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every normal girl and guy will be nervous to talk to someone from the opposite sex.
2006-09-18 17:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by Harry thePotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes on both counts, onn rejection guy fear that more then girls do I think. The guy has to put himself out there to ask a woman out. So he's way out on a limb when he asks you out, and you have all the power at that time to say yes or no his heart is in your hands thats a scary thought.
2006-09-18 17:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone is scared of rejection. It all comes down to how an individual deals with it that seperates 1 from the other... regardless of their sex.
2006-09-18 17:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Wibble 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but the nervousness disapates with age. When your young, you hate the thought of rejection so you rarely engage. As you get older, you realize that rejection isn't that big a deal. You live, you learn.
2006-09-18 17:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by Faulk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes most of the guys are scared and nervous mostly of the fear of rejection. so gals do not reject guys when they talk....
2006-09-18 17:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by morpheous143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PUT IT 2 U THIS WAY ....EVERYONE IS SCARED OF GETTING TURNED DOWN WHETHER UR A GUY OR GURL ......AND YEAH MOST GUYZ R SCARED AND NERVOUS BUT MOST GUYZ LOOK AT IT LIKE ....IF THA GURL TURNS THEM DOWN ...**** IT ...THERE'S MORE GURLZ OUT THERE SO Y DEWL ON REJECTION WHEN U COULD BE OUT THERE FINDING THE PERSON 4 U ..U KNOW ~1~
2006-09-18 17:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by jokester1323 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋