We have a 10 month baby-girl. I'm looking for proffesional answers, is it ok for her to see me and my husband naked? Is it ok from now and on to go to shower with her? I heard some people do that, their kids see them naked all the time, (which didn't seem nice to me). And one night we were having sex, and i couldnt hold my tounge while having an orgasm and she heard us and woke up crying and looking at us, but we stoped at once, I am so worried that if she saw us, will it affect on her anything, is she gonna remember it as a bad memory or trauma. PLEASE HELP.
2006-09-18 10:23:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
It is not your's baby girl problem.It your's problem.Ask yourself it
that make U feel uncomfortable while showing your's naked body front of your's baby girl!?It is your's girl,I'm don't think U should
feel embarrassing for that.Naked the body just a very natural matter.Don't think any pron with that matter.We all do born in naked.Well even I'm already grow up,sometimes I'm still have
shower together with my mom/dad.
2006-09-20 17:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by hAPPY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS a parent of two girls that are now late teenagers; do not worry about a 10 month old seeing you or your spouse naked. (or possibly seeing sex between the two of you either). In a few years both points could be a concern; but not right now.
2006-09-18 20:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by jefferyspringer57@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My youngest 3 (3, 2, &1) have seen me naked and occasionally my husband. I take baths with them sometimes and they walk in on me while I'm showering all the time. I'm ok with it, but my hubby is not. He locks the door when he's getting dressed or showering. To me, if you are cofortable with it, there shouldn't be a problem. Of course, as they get older you will have to keep in mind what they might tell their friends or family. Sex on the other hand (to me)is an absolute no.
2006-09-18 17:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by heaven help me 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
After age 3 it is not a good idea to let a child of the opposite sex see a parent naked. She will not remember anything.
2006-09-18 17:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My daughter will be 10 months old on the 28th of this month and she sees both her dad and me naked frequently. I don't think she even notices naked or clothed. I certainly don't make a big deal over it. I think there definitely comes a point where it should be taken more seriously but, come on she is 10 moths old. She is FINE!!!!
2006-09-18 18:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, but you should probably start shutting the doors when dressing and making love. At 10 months she most likely will not have any memories of both of you naked. Good Luck.
2006-09-18 17:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by loser 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good greif! Relax!!! She is your child, she was birthed from your body!!!!People are so up tight about nudity and such but if you show your child that in a lot of cases ( in your home, the tub, etc...) its perfectly ok and natural to be naked then she will understand that it has a time and place. And if you freak out and "hide" and act embarrassed and ashamed if she see's you making love your going to be teaching her that sexual intamacy between 2 people who love eachother is a bad dirty thing. Then she will for sure have a complex. Is that what your aiming for?
2006-09-18 19:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by christine a 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
children who never see a naked body grow up to believe there is something dirty and wrong with it. Your baby isn't going to be bothered by the sight of your naked body, however, I suggest you might want to put the baby in another room while you are having sex if you are loud enough to wake her up. She is old enough to have her own room away from you any way.
2006-09-18 17:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Was she in the room? Okay, time to move baby's crib to her OWN room where she doesn't have to see or hear that! As for seeing mom and dad walk around naked or showering--that's fine. She won't remember it.
2006-09-18 17:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
On the contrary - if you focus on clothing too much, I think it can cause a bunch of hangups which will need to be undone later in life. I wouldn't let the kids see you having sex, but simple nudity is innocent and harmless. Enjoy.
2006-09-20 00:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dave 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋