my guy is a total sweetheart to me--most of the time. a few days ago, he told me that he thought we should slow down and not see eachother so much, that way, when we did get together, it would be more meaningful, because we will have had time to miss eachother. i gave him a ride home today, even though that was against the original "slowing down" plan...so i was really quiet, in a confused mood and i didn't want to do anything. he told me that in reality, we wouldn't be able to slow down like that, because he would miss me too much. he says he worries about me breaking up with him, but i am so scared to lose him...what should i think?
2006-09-18 10:22:13 · 6 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him what he really wants...sounds like he is confused....
2006-09-18 10:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are confusing period. That does not make much sense. Some guys actually do think like that or maybe he wanted space to himself. Well you really can not control if you will lose him just do not smother him or be too clingy.
2006-09-18 10:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is pulling a head game and is looking elsewhere. Tell him he can have his slow and space, because you need a real man who doesn't play games.
2006-09-18 10:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he need space but has a fear of losing you. He really does like so bear with him, he will figure out what he really wants.
2006-09-18 10:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u and him should have a real disscussion. If you are in a relationship, if something is wrong confide in each other.. Good luck, sweetheart!
2006-09-18 10:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he is lying & trying to make you feel this way. Are you sure there is no one else???? Or maybe he is confused. But I would keep your eyes & ears open.
2006-09-18 10:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by like the wind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋