T. likes me. We went to homecomin together on saturday. He held my hands and gav me a teddy bear. Before me and him started talkin, one day, out of nowhere, his bestfriend (L) called me and said hes brokenheart and flirted with me over the fone. I fell for him. Then a week later, he called me and we talk alot, and i said lets be honest for one nite and we'll forget everything tomorrow. So i told him i like him. He said he cannot get over this one girl. Then he said we should hang out. Since then, hes been avoidin me. Problem is: i do like both of them, in just different way. T. is innocent, cute, funny, nice, hes my chance at true amazing love. L. is...funny...fun...charming...and broke my heart. I know dat if i get anymore serious w/ T, his bestfriend wont eva go out w/ me...so plzz help!
2006-09-18 10:13:48 · 17 answers · asked by yqnlc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, you have to follow your heart. It seems like it would be a waste of your time and energy to pursue L, though. But if you do not see a future with T then you need to drop it now. You dont want to break his heart. You do not want to be the type of girl that leads someone on.
You also need to think hard about if you have true feelings for L or if it is infatuation. The two run a very similiar line but if looked at closely you can see the difference.
My suggestion is if you cant make up your mind then you need to let both of them go!
2006-09-18 10:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pick the person who loves you but be advised, first try to have a proof he might be bluffing with ya. in this case u will loose more if he really dont like u...good luck
2006-09-18 10:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by morpheous143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like T is a winner, why settle for that loser even if you like him after he has already broken your heart. I say go with the nice, cute guy T, I bet you won't regret it.
2006-09-18 10:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by smartiebc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
L used you as a crutch because he was hurting . T really cares about you and you want to go out with L. You don't deserver either one.
2006-09-18 10:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If L already broke your heart then you should move on. Don't just settle for T though. You must love him too or it won't work.
2006-09-18 10:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by k b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one who loves u can forgive , he will do his effort to make u happy , but the other one u if run after him then in future u will be miserable .
2006-09-18 10:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by mido2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THinK BOUT WHO YOUR GOin` TO HAVE A BETTER RELATiONSHiP i MEAN U DONT WANT DA GUY WHO BRAKES YOUR HEART BUT DEN AGAin` YOU LOVE Him N` DA ONE WHO WONT BREAK YOUR HEART LUVS U BUT U DONT SO JUS` THinK BOUT WHO WOULD BE FOR DA BETTER!
2006-09-18 10:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by GUERA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were me, i'd pick T. you're lucky to have a guy drooling over you, throw the dog a bone
2006-09-18 10:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Built ~Ford~ Tough 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one who loves u
2006-09-18 10:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by ISHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go for t. because l. maybe he only called you because he wanted someone to fell sorry for him. and he was on the rebound.
2006-09-18 10:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by DOUBLE CAKES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋