2006-09-18 10:13:22 · 26 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't say how she knows about this? All I am hearing is your side of the story, and there isn't much "story" to it.
Are you rubbing it in because you have had a threesome and are dropping hints to her that you want another one and she's not up for it? If this is the case then she has every reason to be mad. Nobody should be coerced or manipulated into doing anything they don't want to do.
I ask this because you didn't say how she found out? Did she ask you "have you ever had a threesome?" and then freaked out on you when you told her the truth. Or did you volunteer the information?
If you can't handle the answer then don't ask the question.
Barring all that... she is probably be jealous. The fact though is that it was in the past and the past has nothing to do with the today. Like others have said, did she never have sex before you? It is okay for her to have a past but not you?
You two need to do some serious talking and figure it out... and oh... grow-up and get over yourselves, because that is where problems like this come from. Neurotic insecurity = jealousy.
2006-09-19 17:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not jealousy or craziness. Some women dislike that type of thing because it goes against their
personal values. Why are women expected to get over a man's past. She doesn't have to get over anything, she has a right to feel however she wants about it.
2015-09-23 18:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by mg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES SHE IS ! she better be glad you already got it out of you now and your not asking her to do a threesome every 5 minutes . my man is younger than me and he keeps asking me to do it over and over again and on one hand i don't want him to experience it with someone else but i know my feelings will get involved if i do it so tell ur girl to stop acting like a baby that was ur past without you doing that you could have never learned how to appreciate a real women like her.
2006-09-18 10:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's probably not "crazy" just jealous. Or she could be grossed out and think that you're sick. Either way it's in the past. What did you think you were going to accomplish by telling her this? Discussing past relationships and sexual experiences with your current partner isn't always the best thing to do.
2006-09-18 10:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a lot of girls would feel like that. In fact, my boyfriend told me he had one years ago and it did make me a little angry. I felt that I would never be able to measure up to his threesome experience, and being his girlfriend, I wanted to be able to please him more then anybody in his past. The thought of him being with two women at the same time was very intimidating to me.
She's not crazy, just make sure you give her positive feedback about your sex life. Make her know that you love her and make her feel special. She just wants to make sure she's pleasing you.
2006-09-18 10:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not crazy, just uncomfortable with the situation & she doesn't know how to express her true feelings. It might be very wrong to her for that to take place. Give her some time, apologize for her getting upset about something you did when you didn't know her, and let her know you won't put her in that type of situation. I'm sure she'll get over it.
2006-09-18 10:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by bcre8ive2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not crazy, just jealous. Non one like to think of our gf or bf being with someone else, even if it was in the past. Truth is we know we have all been with others, but its not something we want to hear. She is wrong for being upset. She has you now, and that is all that should matter to her, not what you did in the past, tell her to friggin get over it!! (SIMPLE MINDED PEOPLE, MAKE ME WANT TO HURT PEOPLE)
2006-09-18 10:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be mad at you.. The past should stay in the past.. She is your present and your future...Say something nice and sweet and she will melt and forget about the threesome...
2006-09-18 10:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
She isn't crazy, she's just jealous and insecure. The past is just that- PAST. She needs to get over it.
2006-09-18 10:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Dandelion Queen 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I understand your point of view, but the fact alone that you DID it, is "telling" her that you'll maybe DO it again sometime while being with her. At least that's what would kill me. Next time, keep those kind of secrets for your pals from the bar.
2006-09-18 10:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by latgal73 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋