2006-09-18 10:11:35 · 23 answers · asked by allie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to her when she isn't in a bad mood and let her know hat she sometimes fly off the handle even when u didn't do anything wrong, I know I am a mom and I sometimes do the same thing, it is not cause we hate u, or is just sometimes we get a lil frustrated and we do sometimes take it out on you, I'm not saying it is right because it is not.. after I have done it with my son , I do go and talk to him and let him know that I am sorry and that I had a stressful day or whatever the reason may be.. I know it dosent feel too good when Paren ts do that, but just to let u in on a lil secret.. we are only human too, so that is my advice is just to talk to her and have a lil heart to heart with u, it will make her realize what is going on OK.. good luck to you!
2006-09-18 10:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to advise, because I'm not there to see how things are going. Try to not walk away when she is speaking to you, that makes parents go from irritated to p!ssed off in like 2.2 seconds. Just gently remind her that you are right in front of her and you can hear her, and also that you are still a kid and still learning. Moms sometimes don't even realize that they are taking their bad day out on our kids.
Also, when your mom isn't in a 'mood' maybe you can talk to her and tell her how much it hurts you when you get yelled at. Maybe if she got yelled at by an authority more often, she would feel hurt too. But as adults for some reason we expect more respect than that. Maybe you can ask her to teach you respect more by not yelling at you
2006-09-18 17:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call child protective services. They are just as unfair as your mom and will give her h--- from here to eternity. She will have no choice but to straighten up and fly right or they will move you to an orphanage or someone else's house that may or may not treat you worse. Most kids walk away and just slam the bedroom door in their face when parents act dumb, stupid, and irrational. Seriously, just let her read this answer and then tell her you love her and want her to stop. Hope this helps.
2006-09-18 17:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you did something. Whether is it right or wrong, well the judge is still out on that. Next try to do somethng nice for her it not easy to raise children these days. Give her a hug just because, she will enjoy that. Then maybe she will not be so hostel toward you.
2006-09-18 17:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that u fell really upset when she yells at you for no reason what so ever. or talk to her and figure out why she is yelling at you in the first place.
2006-09-18 17:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Heartland Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just agree with everything she is saying, tell her you'll try to do better and tell her you don't know why you did what you did. She'll either accept that or continue to yell. In that case I'd say start saving up for your big move.
2006-09-18 17:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her yell, then when she's not angry, talk to her in a calm and rational way. Maybe she doesn't realize that she's yelling. I'm a mom and sometimes I don't realize it until my kids tell me later. Just don't approach her when she's angry...it will just make it worse.
2006-09-18 17:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you didn't do anything wrong. When was the last time you did something right? When was the last time you helped with the household chores without being asked? When was the last time you told her you loved and appreciated her? Really, you think she's feeling appreciated? She probably does a lot for you, and it's very stressful. Cut her some slack and go tell her you love her. Do it. Right now.
2006-09-18 17:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not communicate with your Mom. Perhaps you spend to much time in answers, while she needs your help somewhere ? Ask Mom what she would like you to do for her? Then follow through and get it done .
2006-09-18 17:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by pooterilgatto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what my kids do to me when I start yelling is they come up to me and say there sorry I am having a bad day hope it gets better and give me a hug, then I forget what I was mad about and apologize for taking it out on them its not your fault just remember when parents have a bad day it is never your fault, but try it, it may work good luck on it!
2006-09-18 17:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋