My boyfriend is amazing. My ex was a complete @$$h0le! He was very controlling and no matter what guy it is, unless he treats me like sh!t i feel like i can't fall head over heels. Most of the time i feel like i am in love with my boyfriend. I am always thinking about him, i get those butterflies and sparks. I feel lost when he signs offline or gets off the phone with me or leaves or goes to work or bed. It just seems like no matter what NICE guy i'm with ..i will be confused until someone tells me how to get over this. I am only 17 but i have had many boyfriends and this one is the best to happen to me. My mom definetly agrees. I feel like all my problems fade away when i'm with him. Maybe i am scared of love now? The more and more i think about it, i think i am.
2006-09-18 10:11:29 · 6 answers · asked by Jaylee P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many women suffer from this syndrome.
Perhaps you just don't feel as though you deserve to be happy.
I think that you are thinking about this way more than you have to.
Because you've been used to being treated badly in the past, you may be waiting for and anticipating that something will change your good fortune.
Don't worry so much. Just try to relax and enjoy being with a boyfriend who (from what you're telling us) is a dreamboat.
2006-09-18 10:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a teenage girl, you like jerks by nature. Right now, you're about as good in love as a three legged dog. Nice guys are boring to you and the jerks are exciting. You however, need to get past those feelings, they'll only get you badly hurt. You may feel good in his arms, but when you find out other girls are in his pants, then it won't feel good. All the girls in my town are like you, which is why I haven't had a girlfriend. I'm a nice guy and that's a real turn off for the girls.
2006-09-18 17:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by Greg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the guys are not same. And you should give your relationship some time , rather than jumping to conclusions. Every time your BF does something good, tell yourself that he so different from others and such a person needs to be showered with more love and trust.
One more thing, IF YOU ARE WAITING FOR GOD TO COME DOWN AND TELL YOU THAT YOU LOVE HIM AND THIS IS THE RIGHT GUY, THEN I'M GOD'S MESSENGER.
Best Of Love !!
2006-09-18 17:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 17, don't sweat about love just have fun and enjoy being with a great guy. You deserve to be happy.
2006-09-18 17:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be scared to fall in love true you must let go of the ex and go on in life it sounds like you might be in love know hope so for you good luck to the both of you
2006-09-18 17:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
din't worried about it
2006-09-18 17:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋