do you wait on them or wat??
2006-09-18 10:07:36 · 31 answers · asked by kayla a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make someone want you. Move on.
2006-09-18 10:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never a good idea to push a relationship with someone who is not ready for one. Everyone likes to be the one "making the decision" so make your biggest statement by allowing that person to come to terms on "their own accord." Don't let that person know you are "waiting" as this may also be seen as pressure and will not work in your favor. Enjoy life, recognize your great traits and what you have to offer someone...when the time is right, perhaps, your true love will come around or.....you will find the right one around the corner! Good Luck!
2006-09-18 17:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by livn2sing67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is hope. In the meantime, see other people. That person may or may not come around so no sense in wasting time waiting. Get out there and have fun with someone who wants a relationship...
2006-09-18 17:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if this person truely wants you, then waiting for a little time is nothing to be with them, but if this person is just telling you there not ready they probably are, but not with you, they probably have someone else in mind, so to you I say ask the person how they feel about you, and make sure its not the friend word cause if it is, move on its not worth the time or day, and besides it will be there fault for not seeing what could have been when your happy!
2006-09-18 17:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy tells you he doesn't want a relationship "yet" what he is really saying is he is just not that into you. Guys would rather be torn limb from limb by a pack of rabbid cats than hurt your feelings.
Move on and go find someone who want's to be with you "now."
2006-09-18 17:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by hawaiijos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on to someone who wants a relationship.
You can't change people. You can only change yourself.
If you really think this person is the "one" give yourself a mental deadline.
If they don't look like they are progressing at the point of the mental deadline.
Drop em'!
2006-09-18 17:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by goldenlifev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's "what" not "wat", and you go about your business...don't wait on them...if they become interested and you are still available, that's fine...but chances are you just aren't the person for them, so their lack of interest isn't just in having a relationship...
I've known plenty of people who claimed not to want to be in a relationship, only to learn a short time later they were seeing someone...the truth was, they just weren't interested in the person who was interested in them...
2006-09-18 17:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says that he's not ready for relationship than u should step a side give him some air to breathe....Maybe he had bad expirience or he thinks its too early for him to get serious...So stop pushing and give him time to get to know u better and decide wheather its worth trying relationship with u or not...Good Luck
2006-09-18 17:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Lina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u wait until u get tie rd and if they don't want an relationship with u now then just find someone else that's what i would do anyways.
2006-09-18 17:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by may 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach the relationship as if this person is a good friend. Hang out together and see what happens. If it's ment to be, it will be.
2006-09-18 17:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by 2hot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't wait. Go about your life like it doesn't matter, then they will notice and maybe come around to your way of thinking. It works every time for me.
2006-09-18 17:09:53 · answer #11 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋