my boyfriend was married before and he has a son. the ex cheated on him and left him and pretty much disappeared.
he has not seen his son in 3 years, but he pays child support. he does not know where his son is
I did some searching online and found the current address.
do i share that info with my boyfriend?
2006-09-18 10:03:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in your shoes about 8 years ago. I found his son and shared the information with him. We learned that the boys mother was not taking good care to the point of neglect. We ended up getting custody and the mother disappeared from his life.
His son is now my son, and having him live with us and be a part of our lives has been a blessing!
2006-09-18 10:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think that you should. That little boy is his son and he has every right to know where he is. They both made him together and he has just as much right to him as she does. Put yourself in your boyfriends place and imagine the pain and hurt he is going through right now. His heart is aching for that little boy, and any good father wants to see their child no matter what's going on. You would be doing him the greatest favor by doing this. I don't think your doing anything wrong. It woud be wrong for you to keep this hidden. Imagine if something happened to his son. How would he ever know? He deserves this much and it could change the situation for him for the better.
2006-09-18 17:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't he know where his son is if he's paying child support? But anyway, yes, you should tell him.
2006-09-18 17:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him know that you found their address.. Honestly, he needs to stay in touch with his son. God only knows the bulls hit that his ex is feeding that child... I hate ex-wives.....
2006-09-18 17:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course in that way he will see how much u love him and that u're prepaired to do anything for him....After all that's what love is about...Stop hanging around here.GO tell him NOW...GOOD LUCK
2006-09-18 17:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Lina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you just going to keep asking until you get the answer you want?
2006-09-19 13:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he wants to see him. If he doesn't want to see him you can't force him...although that might question his character as a man if he doesn't want to. Just ask him. Good luck.
2006-09-18 17:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, share it with him, if he's paying for his kid, he should be able to raise him as he sees fit.
2006-09-18 17:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no mind your own business. if he wants to find his son and ex, its up to him to take that step. you have no idea what is behind his incommunicato state. there are always three sides to every story, and if you found the information, so could he if he wanted.
2006-09-18 17:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Joyce K 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
yes
2006-09-18 17:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Love.Angel.Music.Baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋