Our relation started 8 years ago. Recently, 4months ago, i gv ma life to Jesus. I don wana get married to the unbeliever no mo. He said he will do something i will never forget. He is refering to witchcraft. I have seen terrible things happen to people in my African society (which is full of evil spirits). Scary to me. I have another Christian frend who wants to marry me. I love him. He is father of my 9yr kid. i want to marry him. i lost contact w/him for 9yrs. The Muslim is frustrated, saying i hv doublecrossed him, i have wasted his 8yrs. Spiritual advice pls.
2006-09-18 10:00:17 · 18 answers · asked by Zak 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Man, that isa tough situation. You are going ot have to make the ultimate decision, but if you were one of my daughters, I'd tell you to not marry either one right now. The muslim is apparently very angry and might do something nutty if he is talking about evil spirits. If he is scarign you, I'd trust your instincts. As for the oterh guy, watch out for rebound relationships. That could be just as bad.
For a number of reasons, I'd be inclined to say your best bet is with the father of your child, but even if you do not marry him, let him be part of your child's life.
2006-09-18 10:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we are all children of Abraham whether they are Muslim or Jew or Christan and there for we share the same GOD and a faithful Muslim also believes in Christ. and witchcraft has nothing to do with any of those religions. that is a pagan religion that neither believes in GOD or the Devil and again witches have their own creed harm ye none. i don't think religion has any thing to do with whats going on with you from what you have said you want to dump one guy for another and your using religion as an excuse. any case if it were me i would feel the same way that i had wasted 8 years of my life loving some one who was just leading me on. that's not how GOD works. he would never want some one to use him as a escape goat. you need to look at the real reasons why you want to leve this man for another. and always keep in mind what goes around comes around. when you break some ones heart for no good reason then most likely some where down the road you are heading for a heart break
2006-09-18 18:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by unitedfaith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only marry a person who loves Jesus Christ if you are a believer, anything else will only bring you harm in the long run. Even with other believers you should pray for the right person in your life. If the Muslim guy is giving you crazy threats even before you are married, do you think that will somehow change if you should marry him?
2006-09-18 17:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by raininmyshoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?
2 Corinthians 6:13-15
If you marry a non-Christian or even a Christian that beliefs are radically different from your own, you will NEVER be understood in the marriage. It is better to be alone than in a BAD marriage.
2006-09-18 17:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by cbgrace71 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really believe this guy is trying to do something to you in the spirit realm, the Bible says submit to God and resist the devil and he MUST flee from you, but you must submit to God or you will be out from under the protection of this verse. If it were me I would go on a fast and ask the Lord how to respond. But rest assured if you are in obediance to all the Lord has shown you and seeking his face. Those supernatural forces can not over come you.. My husband had a woman he worked with try and put a spell on him to get him fired and within the week she was fired. The pit they dig for your feet their feet will be taken in that same pit. this is in the Psalms.
2006-09-18 17:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by wisdom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well the bible said " Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14 As far as the witchcraft remember this scripture " No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and their righteous is in me, saith the LORD. Isaiah 54:17 Do not be afraid to do what the LORD has placed in your heart to do. I hope this scriptures comfort you and guide you in following the will of Jesus Christ. God bless your heart. Amen
2006-09-18 17:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by moniiluv17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have received Jesus Christ as your savior then you are free- you have no reason to fear witchcraft and evoil as through Christ you have overcome thses things- you are free from the curse of sin and death and no weapon formed against you shall prosper- Trust in Jesus, read your Bible and allow the Holy Spirit to give you discernment, strength, courage and faith.
The Holy Spirit will guide you in what you should do- do not let fear be your guide- His perfect love will cast out all fear!
2006-09-18 17:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should marry your childs father if you love him. I was in a position where I was mislead by a muslim man he will say you can be christian but it will not last if you mary him if you are born again you must be firm and mary the chritian. your child needs his father the muslim man would never respevt him or her and if it is a girl at nine I would fear for her savty islam alows marraige and sex at that age
2006-09-18 17:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good Christian man. Even putting the spiritual differences aside, the cultural differences are too great for the relationship to work and for you to grow as a Christian.
2006-09-18 17:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Chris W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about why you are a christian. And then have faith that God will not let you down. Read scripture and get close to your church.You are about to witness the power of God over Evil.
You are Blessed.
2006-09-18 17:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by jassy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋