About two weeks ago I did something that I am not proud of. I live with my mother and my brother. A week ago, for some strange reason my mother decided to try something new for lunch, “Mountain Oysters”. I thought they were some kind of oysters, but they did not seemed like oysters at all, they just looked like big oval white balls, about the size of two softballs. Anyway, when she told us that they were bull testicles….first I was shocked, then started laughing. My brother was just staring at them with a serious face. But then I noticed that my brother begin to blush, and I could not help but to laugh uncontrollable at him, and my mother too. Then she left to do some more shopping. First I was joking with him about the oysters, then got courage and picked up one of the “oysters” to embarrassed him even more. THEN I got a little carried away and without thinking just throw the “ball” very hard into his balls!!! He doubled over to his knees and then fell to the side, his face became pale, he was down for more than five minutes, and the sight of him holding his balls with the big ball just next to him was too much for me, and I laughed so hard that I had tears in my eyes! He then got up, and was real mad, and just locked himself in his room. He never told my mother, I guess he was too embarrassed. He did not eat the oysters, lol.
I have been asking for his forgiveness but he do speak to me and do not even look at me!, my mother suspects that something is wrong. What can I do?
2006-09-18 09:46:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You seem pretty immature and I guess have no idea of the pain felt when a man is hit in his testicles. You will experience something similiar yet more painful when you give birth the first time. I would guess you had better watch out for your brother, as this is not something to be taken lightly and he will probably remind you of that when you least suspect it.
2006-09-18 09:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by dlobryan1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to tell your Mother about this. You have no idea how seriously you've hurt your brother, physically and emotionally.
Your Mother needs to have a talk with you about how to treat people, especially your brother apparently. To laugh at him while he's laying on the floor, pale is just nasty.
I have to wonder too about your mother, buying something so exotic for a couple of young kids to try. To leave you both alone before the meal was over, while you were both having some issues with the food, your laughter and your brother's embarrassment seems quite strange. Or did she plan it that way?
Frankly the whole situation sounds very odd and the more I think about this the more I think perhaps your mother needs some parenting classes if not some further intervention.
2006-09-18 10:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by cinderellie11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, i'm sorry, the way you wrote it, it sounded pretty hilarious, but painful. You hit him in the testicle with, well, a testicle, not a truck. That's a once in a lifetime kind of thing. You wouldn't do it again, you're truly sorry, I would tell him, and, possibly even tell your mother if she's concerned, and see where it goes from there. If he's still angry after all of that, short of you throwing another testicle at him, demanding he apologize, LOL!!!! there isn't more you need to do, it's then on him. I am sure he will get over it soon enough, though.
By the way, I could never eat those LOL!!!! How do they taste?
2006-09-18 10:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by misteri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you got to relize that that aint funny an you could have seriously hurt him by doing that an for some reason you need to ask your self why you get so much pleasure out of some ones pain.......do you even care about how you have hurt him an how cruel you are because of it.......are oyu even really sorry about what you have done or is it just that you dont want the mom to get mad if she finds out????? if you even are really sorry then you will no what to do......an in the future you need to be a real sister to your brother an not a total *****.....an i bet right now your hinking wtf it was just a joke.....but it wasent obviously not to him plus you went way to far w/ it
2006-09-18 09:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to tell your mother because he could be bruised and may need to see a doctor. You should try and talk to your brother and appologize maybe by taking him to a movie or buying him a gift. You don't hit a man or boy in there private unless they are trying to hurt you. You are mean!!!
2006-09-18 09:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tyler&Noah's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I'm not going to even read all that because if someone wants to spend a day writing a question to people that they dont even know for their wisdom then they must be crazy!!! Get a life no one cares!!!
2006-09-18 09:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologize. Make sure he's not hurt. Do something nice. You can't really change the past, but don't do that again. That really sucks.
2006-09-18 10:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep apologizing. Maybe do something nice for him. That was pretty mean.
2006-09-18 09:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write out your apology, dont let anyone but him see it , tell him how bad you feel. Show him this?!?
2006-09-18 09:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Donna B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he is allowed to hit you once as long as he doesn't tell your mom what you did to him and if he will start talking to you again.it always works for me.
2006-09-18 09:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by lilhottjankster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋