he said that he wants me back.....
ive said no and i said i had another bf
and he still wont back off..
wot shud i do?
mch luvs
2006-09-18 09:11:05 · 34 answers · asked by dissapearing angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some guys are like this
throw your own poo at him
tell his friends what hes doing
call up his mommy, and ask her to deal with him
write a letter to him cc'd to his mom and the school asking him 2 stop
2006-09-18 09:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by yeah well 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting question. I suppose you should tell it to your new bf. That'll be a double check. (1)If he (the new one) really loves you he will take it carefully and personally like a brother to the 1st one. I know you would also like that kind of a boy. (2)If this doesnt work you should tell the old one not to harm himself anymore and move on if he loves you. He'll have a pain for a day and all 3 of you will have happiness for life. If he still doesnt back off, shug him, tell your new bf to kick him out of the picture. I know he'd love to do so. Best of lck and tell me the result when its over with
2006-09-18 09:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by vishal_willpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that you have one life girl. Why spend it with someone else? There is a lot of **** talked about relationships. Why do we need to be involved with that amount of agro? Listen to that old "Young Hearts Run Free" record and take note . I listened when I was young and free but didn't listen right. Now I have wasted 20 years of my life and am ******* miserable.
2006-09-18 09:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops. If that doesn't do go anywhere stick a pistol in your purse. Sucking chest wounds have a way of making things clear even to the dimmest of bulbs.
2006-09-18 09:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want him, ignore him; he'll get the message eventually. The more you give him reasons the more he'll have to argue with and hook you in again. If he pesters you with txt or calls tell you phone line supplier, they may be able to block his number. If that doesn't work get the Police to give him a ring.
2006-09-18 09:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before choose between the two boys, you'd make an ask.
What do you want for you?
Is love what you are looking for in those guys o just for fun?
If you really love to your old bf...Let's get back whith him.
CU!
2006-09-18 09:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by Santiago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear to him that he had his chance and you have moved on and if he still wont back off ask you new chap to ask him to stop. If all else fails call the police and charge him with harassment
2006-09-18 09:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do. If you are trying to keep him away, tell him "can you understand that it is over or do I need to get a restraining order".
Then stop leading him on. Hang up, don't try to be nice or easy. Be a bitchh about it and he will back away.
2006-09-18 09:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by campojoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he do/you do to lose him to begin with. Think about that first, and then decide. You're young, single, and prospects are unlimited. If he's a dog - or he was - then let him go on his own - you don't need that!
If it was you, then maybe you ought to consider that the guy really likes you!
2006-09-18 09:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by gatesfam@swbell.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, tell him that if he doesn't back off you'll get a restraining order. Tell him maybe next time he won't f*ck it up so badly that the girl in question has to get a restraining order.
2006-09-18 09:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by J_Solo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋