He got really mad at me the other week and started punching the door and talking about breaking up with me. Then the next few days he was being really nice to me and made me dinner. This weekend, he got mad and punched the door again and started yelling at me while I was feeling ill. It started because I was feeling sick. I was feeling lightheaded and I wasn't saying much. He thought that I was hiding my feelings inside and that there was something bothering me and that I wasn't telling him. He was upset about something to so he didn't want to take care of me while I was sick. I went to my room and started reading because I didn't want to talk to him. He came into my room and started asking me if I was going to be upset if he left because he was feeling very violent and that he has been snapping at everyone and not just me. I've been with him for almost 8 years and he has never hit me but he has never acted like this either. Now he is being nice again. What should I do?
2006-09-18 09:10:03 · 9 answers · asked by Pinky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be very very careful
just because he has never hit you doesnt mean youre not being abused mentally or emotionally. 8 years is a long time...but if this is WAY WAY WAY out of the norm for him..something is bothering him more than you "hiding your feelings"
2006-09-18 09:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys (including me) try and want to fix our wife,girlfriend's problem weather it is not feelin well or not accomplishing something and when we cant fix it we get angry.I do it all the time when my wife is sick i get mad and tend to be a jerk toward her. That could be the thing as guys we want to give our loved ones a solution to whatever the problem is.Dont get down on him he probley just really loves you and cant stand to see you not feelin good.
2006-09-18 09:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by bill s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. It sounds like he is cheating on u 2. I think he will get violent and hit u 3. He may be unstable and it may be showing in how he acts around u.
2006-09-18 09:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by Adam K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's willling to get some counseling for his anger leave this fool immediately. His violent temper will only get worse and one day he might use it on you, if he hasn't already.
2006-09-18 09:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is upset about something and he doesn't want to tell you about it.
Maybe he needs to talk so ask him what's up
2006-09-18 09:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to put you in my shirt pocket and take you home. Leave the bum!
2006-09-18 09:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. BIG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares?
dump this jerk and meet me for a good time.
2006-09-18 09:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Door abusers...they are so insensitive....leave the LOSER !!!
2006-09-18 09:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show me some more
2006-09-18 09:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋