And i feel like ****....i feel completley paraIized. I cry all the time. i feel like i cant do anything. All i can do is lay in bed all day and cry. I feel like someone died or something. What can i do. How do i get over him?
2006-09-18 09:05:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get up take a shower, brush your teeth, comb your hair, put some make up on and GET THE HELL OVER HIM and get on with your life! There are to many men out there to be crying over one!
2006-09-18 09:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was your true love, it will be hard to get over him. I lost my one true love to another woman (friend!) and I did everything right. We even have a son together. The best thing to do is to put it in the back of your mind. Keep yourself busy and one day, you will meet someone else. I'm not saying that you will get over him completely, but it will be easier. There will be days when you will think of him or something will remind you of him, but believe me, it does get easier with time. I hope that you feel better soon. :(
2006-09-18 16:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The crying is good, you are getting the grief out. This is important, you have suffered a loss and you have to go into the cave for a while to heal yourself.
Some time from now, this will be a faint memory, if even that.
2006-09-18 16:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is OK to feel that way just not OK to let him know he is making you feel that way. that is a big boost to his moral as being in power/control. Makes him feel sure he could do whatever he wants and you would take him back. this would happen over and over. get out dance, have conversations, dinners, etc sex does not need to play in at this time.(if you choose to more power to you) Just things that will let you discover that there IS life after death. i have 'died" a couple of times in the past. If I had taken the "easy way out" long ago, I would not be the proud parent of a 14 yr old.
2006-09-18 16:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately it isn't that easy to get over someone you love-you will probably always love him-Your best bet is to think more about yourself and your well being-take on new hobbies to keep your mind of it and eventually you will realize you are probably better off without him. Obviously he didn't care about you the way a guy should-you will find someone in your search to improve your own self who will show you that love!
2006-09-18 16:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by laura_lovely_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i know how u feeling right i've been there. u just got to realize that ya'll weren't met to be together ok. and gurl u young u aint got no reason to crying over a guy. so i say go out with yo girlfriends and have fun and maybe u might just find urself another man.
2006-09-18 16:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by M$. N!CK@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey move on find yourself find out within what you want do you want to keep feeling this way for someone who dont want you,have peace of mind that you are ok. Remember that maybe no one will be like your ex that what made him, what he is,the good thing is that now you will meet someone else who will be differnt that will be unique in his on way,you will be loved and respected,and most of all happy,hope everything turns out cool,and life will be good.
2006-09-18 16:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by vito194 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not going to get over him fast enough!!!!!!!! the only way i have found is going out with someone else or to keep your self really really really busy. don't be by your self, be around alot of people. u could also think of all the bad things he has done to u (if there is any) i hope it help...and if u need to talk to someone my email address is couqueze@yahoo.com
2006-09-18 16:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by couqueze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time. your right, when a relationship breaks up, it does feel like that person died. it takes time hunny. but you will learn from this, and become stronger from this, and know what you want in the next guy!
2006-09-18 16:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor u ! what ? Are u living on an Island ? Look around and see all these goodies and pick one with a biger size..p e n i s ..
2006-09-18 16:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋