Whenever my girlfriend performs oral sex on me, I sometimes lose my erection regardless of how good it feels. Is there someway I can solve this problem. She always feels like she's not good enough although she is.
2006-09-18 09:01:30 · 17 answers · asked by N. S 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
May be you're gay? There is nothing wrong with it, however a week erection either show a medical problem or lack of interest.
Assuming that you are healthy - may be you just playing for the wrong team?
2006-09-18 09:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by Michael R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is more mental than physical. If you're off somewhere else, maybe thinking of work, or any everyday occurrence, or problem, this may take your mind from what you were doing, thus down goes the wiener. If you are physically tired from a lot or work or exercise or just plain sick(I don't mean perverted) also can lead to an erection going down. Pay attention to what your are thinking of or how you physically feel during the oral sex and you may find the answer to your dilemma.
2006-09-18 09:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sylvia P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its impossible. You have a refractory period during ehich you cannot get an erection. If you just wait this time out, youll get another one. It can vary based on a bunch of factors, notably age. Mine's about 3 mins
2016-03-17 22:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be psyching yourself out - maybe it happened once and then now you're "thinking" about it and it will happen all the time. The mind controls a majority of the penis function. Tell her and yourself that you're going to have oral sex and it doesn't matter if you are soft or not. Just take the pressure of yourself. And you also might want to talk to your Doctor about Viagra if that doesn't work.
2006-09-18 09:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by ggirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, tell your girlfriend that you REALLY enjoy what she does and it REALLY feels good. The next time she gives you oral, just sit back and enjoy it. Don't let yourself get all wound up with performance anxiety. If you worry about keeping an erection you'll have trouble keeping it. Remember, if you lose it you can always please her by doing some oral action on her...
2006-09-18 09:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by sarge927 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% of the work must be done by your mind. Physical stimulation alone will not do the trick. You must train your mind to stay 'erect'. Let your mind wander...
2006-09-18 09:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Gentle Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you? Are you going through any kind of depression? Anxiety about something? are you on any kind of medication. These factors can sometimes lead to your problem, i know this from experience. Have you talked with your primary care doctor? Hopefully this info will help you out.
Good luck
2006-09-18 09:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can buy a 'cock ring'. They r used a lot in porno movies to keep the guys hard. But saying that, if a gurl woz giving me head, i would be as hard as the wind blows.
2006-09-18 09:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude if you can't stay erect while getting head, you got a serious problem..........check out viagra.....
2006-09-18 09:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by Scotty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a better lookin' girlfriend
2006-09-18 09:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋