BUT
IT'S OK LIKE WHEN YOU'RE 20 AND THEY'RE 33. YOU KNOW?
I DONT GET IT
AND LIKE
WHY IS IT OK
FOR A 25 YEAR OLD TO DATE AN 18 YEAR OLD
BUT NOT OKAY FOR ME TO DATE A 45 YEAR OLD?
MAKES NO SENSE
NO SENSE
NO SENSE
2006-09-18 08:54:51 · 21 answers · asked by Silky Blonde Afro Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has got to be a joke.
2006-09-18 09:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Monika S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay, first, you need to look at it this way: If you were a 12 year old girl, wouldn't it be a little weird if a 25 year old guy hits on you? i mean, you've just hit puberty, and are not very mature yet. Girls that young shouldn't be dating ANYONE-it's really annoying that they even do. I was two years ago, and I got asked out, and i turned him down because i knew that ppl dating too young is simply disturbing. you're still a kid, go do kid things. In these two years i have become much more mature. That's the thing-when you're an adult, you stop maturing, but between the ages of 12-18, all of ur maturity is pretty much coming to you. think about it. Plus a 25 year old is an adult, and its illegal to date a kid, since you are simply taking advantage of them. Plus, why on earth would a 25 year old be interested in a 12 year old unless they were a. perverted b. a child molester or c. a total loser who gets no action for other 25 year olds?
2006-09-18 16:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes perfect sense. A 12 year old is a CHILD they are not fully developed mentally or physically. At 12 you aren't mature enough to make safe judgements. I was a young girl who dated an older guy and at the time I thought I knew everything...well it turns out that I really didn't know ANYTHING at all. You need a lot more time to figure life out and to grow physically before you can make the decision to be in a mature and grown up relationship.
2006-09-18 16:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by deeconner23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ITS THE LAW!!!
A 12 year old is not an adult...an 18, 25, 30 and over are adults. YOU WILL GO TO JAIL! A 12 year old does not have the capacity to even know what a relationship is. They will have plenty of years ahead of them to see and date all they want. A 25 year old is not stable if they want to date a 12 year old..think about!!
2006-09-18 15:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by tijenmarie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see....you think a 12 yr old is ready to bear the burden of pregnancy and the possibility of an std or worse? You need to get a clue. I see this guy you are dating who is obviously much older likes em young and very immature. Sad.
2006-09-18 15:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by Husker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a twelve year old CHILD is not emotionally nor physically ready to be involved in a relationship with a mature man,also it is illegal.Why would any man want to be with a child unless he is perverted in some way.We need to let children be children for as long as possible in this day and age
2006-09-18 16:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by erinshauna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a 12 year old is a child - relationships have to be based on consent, and a child cannot give any meaningful consent to something that requires a much greater degree of emotional and physical development. (ie: it is abuse even if a 12-year-old says yes)
2006-09-18 16:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by gellhorn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called logic in numbers. Its a little and big difference. 25 and 12=big difference. Just common sense among those who understand the laws of logic.
2006-09-18 16:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Gentleman in Disguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions as this one really gets me fired up. People. are perverts being with a 12 year old . . pedophiles . child molesters . If they cant find people there own age or close to it then to bad. molesting a child is so wrong and disgusting and so are the ones doing it.
2006-09-18 16:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 12 year old is a child.
2006-09-18 15:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by fajita 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
about 30 people answer'd your question huns, what part you not getting, I know it feels ok right now to you but its not normal, if you want us to say wow go for it, gosh young love eh! well at 45 its not in his cacse, more like perverted love. get professional advice from a teacher or a grown up you can trust, not him, he dated you when you was 14, he was 43, thats NOT RIGHT! sound the alarm bells
2006-09-18 15:58:15 · answer #11 · answered by Loverboi007 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋