I really seek to have friends with the common beliefs.
2006-09-18 08:41:12 · 23 answers · asked by runny 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Do u think if i can find any friend here with the same belief?
2006-09-18 08:47:45 · update #1
Sex before marriage is against Gods Laws and its so nice to meet someone so virtuous in today's world
2006-09-18 08:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Twilight_dreaming 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how you see Spoiler Warnings!? Well, this is an atheist warning. If you don't want to know what I think, stop right here.
No, I don't believe that's a good idea. In fact, I think it's a horrible idea.
I'm not promoting rampant sexuality, but I think at the very least, if you've found "the one" you should try them on for size. Save you a lot of problems and surprises down the road.
Besides that, sex is wonderful. Why deny yourself? That's just silly. Back in my day, diseases weren't so prevalent, so perhaps I was able to experience more freedom than you can today. And I'm glad I did. I really enjoyed sex as a teenager. I wouldn't have missed that for anything!
I wouldn't say that that is for everyone. You've got to be smart about it, and mature enough to handle it.
2006-09-18 15:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. I had sex before marriage and it destroyed my marriage. My wife would always wonder if I really loved her or not. If I had waited... she would have known because I was willing to wait which would build personal value and honor. She would have known I loved her because I was willing to wait out of honor and respect for her.
She also should have waited... because I wonder if our love is true or built on a foundation of performance?
Those who live together... have no strings attached. No commitments to each other. Anything goes. And what happens when they bring children in the world? Oh I know... do it the easy way... have an abortion. I knew someone who had 4 abortions. She attempted suicide from the guilt she carried.
We live in a badly managed society today. We adults should watch our children... they are wiser than we are because they see the pain and hardship that we adults cause in their innocent lives.
The decay of a society brings the destruction of one's country. Will we learn... or will we destroy ourselves?
2006-09-18 15:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by ddead_alive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me.
I don't marry a girl for what she's got between her legs or on her chest. That's a little to shallow.
Now, come over to my place, let me give you the remote and let's see just exactly how compatible we are! That's far more important then what you got or what it looks like. I have to live with YOUR choices in shows or I won't get any sex inside of marriage, will I!
2006-09-18 15:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more than just not having sex before marriage it's why? God gives us a gift that can only be given away one time and it is to be reserved for our mate - and that is our virginity. If we give that gift away, then what will we give our mate for a wedding gift? Experiences we've already had? The joy of marriage and the sexual aspects of marriage is the growing and learning together of the pleasures you bring to one another. If you already know these things then you have nothing to discover together within your marriage. I was not given the opportunity to give that wonderful gift when I married, it was forcefully taken away from me and I truly miss that I had no gift to give my mate, because he is was more than worthy of having to help me overcome fears so that we could begin to enjoy the passions of our physical love, which God had meant for us to have.
2006-09-18 15:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by dph_40 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of my questions on here are really stupid because I just wanted to make fun of the site lol, but I agree with you. I think society is really a mess these days and it makes having sex early the 'cool' thing to do. I disagree with society on this one though. I want to honor my body to God. I want to keep myself pure until I meet my husband so I can be his and no one elses. I have no problem with dating, in fact, I have a great boyfriend who feels the same way about it and he really loves God and in turn can love me for who I am, not just to take advantage of me.
2006-09-18 15:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by idk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That horse has already left the barn for me, but I'd advise waiting. I got pregnant when I was in college. Ended up getting married and having two kids and now we are getting a divorce. I may not have married him if I wasn't pregnant, know what I mean?
2006-09-18 15:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by Suspended 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE I personaly thinks that killing your future marriage because you will only experience that one person and you will always wonder what else is out there...thats why people cheat because of churiosity and stupidity so id rather experince men and have my man experience other girls then when we find eachother we will have experienced others and know that we only want eachother. to truly love someone and be happy in a relationship you have to love EVERYTHING about them so what if you marry them and they cant get you off and your not satisfied then you cheat so NO waiting is BAD BAD BAD idea plus sex is so wonderful why wait :)
2006-09-18 15:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by TEMPTRESS 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's a big deal if you have sex before marriage. As long as you're being safe at least...
2006-09-18 15:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by meKrystle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although i have sinned against my God and committed fornication..I now know that sin outside of marriage is wrong and i have not done so in almost 2 years...God is a good God...
2006-09-18 15:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by holyghost130 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋