what can u do if u r really in love with someone but they are in the process of breaking up with u, only cos u havnt seen them for ages and u cant afford to travel to c them, and u cant get them out of your head and u just want them in your life and u dont have much time left to make amends advice please
2006-09-18 08:37:18 · 19 answers · asked by pete 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really cared that much for them then you would do all you could to see them.
2006-09-18 08:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get some new friends, get new hobbies, become involved with your own life and education and eventually, you think about them less and less, until they become a memory. You meet someone closer to home and realize the strain of the long distance was actually no fun at all--because why have "relationship" where you can't even meet for a movie or go to Starbucks without major travel plans?? And then you end up deciding the break up was for the best.
Long distance relationships really aren't relationships at all; they're just long distance.
2006-09-18 08:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But even if you love them that much if they're breaking up with you then they obviously don't feel as strongly for you cos if you both felt the same way you'd both be fighting to stay together rather than just one of you. Who knows, maybe after a bit of time you'll get back together once you both realise what you missing but you might just have to accept that this is not the one for you and tough out the heartache until one day someone else comes along.
2006-09-18 08:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by seaside_girl_03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a lot of questions. Unfortunately you aren't the only one who's able to answer them. If you really love her and you want to be with her than you know what you have to do. Why do you live so far apart? Can you consider moving to be with her? I'm in a similar situation myself and its hard to make the decision to call it quits or move it to the next level.
If you really are in love I guess you'll find a way to work it out. No matter what. the answer will just become clear....at least that's what I'm hoping for!
2006-09-18 08:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Smithy14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's for the best. When you love someone that much, you will move Heaven and earth to be with them and cost would not be a factor.
Chuck it all and go to them if you want to save the relationship.
2006-09-18 08:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like a long distance relationship. If it is taking a toll on the other person, then let her go so she will be able to be with someone that can fully be with her. For you, I would keep busy with friends, activities, and hobbies.
2006-09-18 08:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by ninapanama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd write them a long letter - handwritten, not typed. Explain to the how much you love them, and hope that that is enough. If not, maybe its for the best.
2006-09-18 08:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are in love with someone who's just not that into you anymore. If he doesn't feel the same way that you do, then you should move on.
2006-09-18 08:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then just move on life will go on and u will find a better love. everything happenes for a reason and maybe there is a reason for this too. just go along with life and u will find someone better.
2006-09-18 08:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by poetryslame200 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't force someone to love you or stay with you. sometimes the most loving thing is to let them go and have faith that the things that happen are so that your destiny can unfold. www.eft-talk.com might help you through. sorry you are hurting
2006-09-18 09:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋