2006-09-18 08:33:10 · 28 answers · asked by steph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELL NO! First of all, he's old enough to BE your daddy! And second of all, where is your daddy?
Honestly, he has to some kind of perv if he actually WANTS to date a 17-year-old.
2006-09-18 08:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by Candilaria 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
putting moral issues aside i dont think theres going to be much in common between such a drastic age distance the 35 yr old male or esp female have gone through so much with their lives already and the 17 yr old even a wise one still has much to experience in life so theres a conflict of interest- it is illegal first off 17 still a minor and if theres a baby in the picture you know how much thatd put a damper on the situation the 17 yr old needs to experience life before giving it and if its a 35 yr old man who's to say he'll stay how would you explain that to the kid? morally i find it a bad decision because thats over 10yrs and anything beyond that is starting to become a conflict of interest-so if its you in this situation it is illegal so be careful of that and i wouldnt get commited a 17yr old boy aint ready and a 17yr old girl will fall too hard and get crushed-which can be good for a life lesson but if you can avoid the pain and take the message wouldnt you rather do that anyway? bottom line BE CAREFUL and DON'T GET TOO SERIOUS TOO QUICK
2006-09-18 15:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by desireddisease15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 35 year old would have to be pretty messed up in the head to want to date a 17 year old.
2006-09-18 15:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to let everyone know that my parents got married when my dad was 40 and she was 19. they have 4 children and have lived a long and happy life together the oldest child is now 40. so dont judge people on numbers people are very different so do what you feel is right oh yeah respect the law tooo.
2006-09-18 15:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. The guy, if caught "playing" with the 17 yr-old would go to jail for "playing" with a minor. He'll be a sex offender.
2. No, the 35 really, REALLY needs to find some one his own age.
2006-09-18 15:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by Da Nun Uttas Story 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's actually illegal in some states. What would a 35 year old want with someone that young? Unless they are a control freak and want someone that is completely naive about life.
2006-09-18 15:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jani S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it would be illegal in some states.
Why would a 35 year old be as immature as a 17 year old anyway? Sounds like either something is wrong with the older one, or else the older one just wants sex. They would have nothing else in common.
2006-09-18 15:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think there is really something wrong with a 17 year old dating a 35 year old because first of all He is WAY WAY older than u and he could be your dad or mom. I think that that is not a great relationship because he could go to JAIL JAIL for life just for going with a 17 year old. THINK TWICE AND THINK BEFORE U LET IT GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-18 15:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
To much age difference. If it is the man that is 35 have you ever thought why hes not dating closer to his age. Most probably something wrong there. Be careful.
2006-09-18 15:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by xeson1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men that are that grown only want 2 things from a girl that young - to have sex and to control her. This is a red flag! Why does he want to be with someone so much younger than he, and more importantly, why don't women his own age want to date him?
2006-09-18 15:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Another Nickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not OK !! Your to young and if I may say so without intending on hurting your feelings; you are also very inexperienced at not only sex but in having and or handling relationships. Now don't get mad at me for saying that , it doesn't mean that your not an adult or growing up at all.
2006-09-18 15:39:33 · answer #11 · answered by joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋