I want to show my bf i love him. I want to show him he's the most important thing to me. I want to prove to him how much i care about him. How do I do this without having sex. See usually i would just have sex with a guy to prove to them i love them, but he's differnet id want to screw him. I love him and want to stay with him for the rest of my life. So how do i show him i love him without having sex?
2006-09-18 08:32:42 · 11 answers · asked by badgirl 419 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The world may countenance premarital sex experiences, but the Lord and his church condemn in no uncertain terms any and every sex relationship outside of marriage, and even indecent and uncontrolled ones within marriage” (Spencer W. Kimball, Faith Precedes the Miracle [Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1972], p. 175).
When couples respect each other enough to practice virtue in every aspect of their courtship, they lay a foundation likely to withstand the most serious assaults during marriage.
President Kimball has explained: “It is the destiny of men and women to join together to make eternal family units. In the context of lawful marriage, the intimacy of sexual relations is right and divinely approved. There is nothing unholy or degrading about sexuality in itself [between a husband and his wife], for by that means men and women join in a process of creation and in an expression of love” (The Teachings of Spencer W. Kimball, ed. Edward L. Kimball [Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1982], p. 311).
2006-09-18 09:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by swomedicineman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 05:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not always have to have sex to show someone you love them, going out together has its own rewarding, take him to a beach, or make a nice romantic supper with candles, and on hi splate put a big red heart on it and when he sits down you can write on it, that you mean so much to me and words or suggestions canèt defind the way I love you, so I have cooked this love meal with my heart to feed my one and only love, or at the beach go there a few mins early and write in the sand saying I love you bigger then this place, doesn't have to cost money, but use your imagination, sex is only part of a relationship, its not based on it, and seeing that you stated you usually do this, and I am guessing not with him yet, he wants you for you, cause you intrigue him so intrigue him more with what your imagination can do for him and show him not sexually but in other ways to say you love him ok girl best of luck! P.S. there are some great books out there that can help you say you love him without having sex with him, and no not give him oral either, but there some helpfull suggestions no harm in reading ever came to anyone.
2006-09-18 08:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One thing that you could do to pull this off is, offer to cook him dinner at his house, or yours.
Or you could make him a little coupon book with things like, one free talk to your father (check with him first, he he), Or one free hour if showing you how to fix a car, you know stuff like that.
If he thinks sex is love, he not the right one for you. So if you think you have to do that to show you love him, don't because he doesn't love or respect you enough to tell you other ways of showing your love. I hope things work out for you.
2006-09-18 08:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of idiots on this site who will give you obvious bad advice. Good for you for waiting with this special guy. There are a lot of ways to tell him. By him a card that expresses how you feel. Tell him. Just spending time with him is special. Be creative. Spend a day doing something he really loves.
2006-09-18 08:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Sex DOESN'T nessecarily mean that the relationship is guaranteed to end. Maybe he'll feel the same way and you two could more or less make love that have sex.....hahaha.....i think its a good idea. give it a try
2006-09-18 08:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by nck_bulletzz 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why can't you have sex with him-that does not make any sense-if your not a virgin-then shut up or give mim really good BJ.
2006-09-18 08:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by baba booey 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
write him a poem, go on a special date, purpose (lol), do something he really enjoys like sports or needle point and tell him you love him
2006-09-18 08:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him have sex with one of your friends
2006-09-20 09:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by HughGRection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend time with him and give affection toward him without the lust. if you really do love someone you will sacrifice for them and think of only them. not you,
2006-09-18 08:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋