i was seeing a guy for over a year, we finished now, we always had great times 2gether, however when we got intimate he was never really eager to have sex was a virgin he told me although had 3 yr relationship before me, when we did try sex he was not fully erect and so could not not enter me at first i thought it was nerves.. he was quite well endowed than after so many times of trying thought it was me, he smokes hash heavily and on daily basis.. we ended it a few months ago but im still so confused
2006-09-18 08:31:42 · 20 answers · asked by ember250 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the dope, honey. Not the dope (guy), the dope (hash). Go find yourself a good guy that has his head on straight, with a job and his own place. You're probably hot and probably easily find a guy to date you.
2006-09-18 08:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not always about being well endowed. Maybe the time for him just was right.
Honestly, if I were that guy I wouldn't dump my girlfriend.
If anything, as as guy I would just explain that I'm not ready. Maybe he wants to the time to be right. I don't quite understand if he's virgin or not, but it would be nice to try to understand where he's comng from.
In other words: don't push it, don't feel insulted, and accept the what-is.
2006-09-18 08:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
around the age of 8 or 9, boys start up liberating testosterone. it extremely is the male hormone that makes them "crave" intercourse. ladies start up liberating estrogen while they being menstruation (era), that's around 12-14. in fact, boys could have that sexualcontinual - i've got self belief because of the fact that's been construction there for thus long. ought to ought to do with peer rigidity, the media, or impatience to boot. you probably did the superb element in dumping him. you ought to do something you do no longer want to do. I propose you go on your college counselor. It won't supply up human beings from speaking, in spite of if it will set him without postpone! human beings will ultimately recover from it besides.
2016-10-15 03:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame his semi-impotence on you. The hashish is a definite contributor, and ED problems lie exclusively within the man, whether they are rooted in physical or psychological reasons.
2006-09-18 08:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he should stop the drugs, then he wouldn't have a problem. He is the one with the problem. He'll realize that when he has the same problem with another girl.
2006-09-18 08:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by You may be right 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiance says "no, why would i dump the girl. It is my problem, not yours. He maybe gay or smokes too much hash."
2006-09-18 08:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Natty137 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in your explanation - the drugs have stolen his manhood. Too bad, huh?
2006-09-18 08:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoking hash will do that to some guys....but they're usually to stoned to care
2006-09-18 08:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should have dumped him for abusing hash
i understand recreation fun with it
but thats ridiculous
maybe he has thin blood due to excessive drug use
2006-09-18 08:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by DeaconFrost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy cannot get an erection because of drugs and not you. dump this loser,scumbag,ratbag and find someone nice.
2006-09-18 08:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋