i already asked this question but i want more answers.
he cant quit the gang, n he doesnt wanna quit it either. but his parents r really mad n upset wit him n he doesnt know wat to do to make them stop bein like that
2006-09-18 08:10:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're joking, right? He certainly does know why his parents are upset, and what he can do to stop them from being upset -- and that is leave the gang. If it's the kind of gang that he can't quit, then his parents are absolutely correct in their concerns. If he doesn't want to quit the gang, that means he's putting the gang ahead of his parents. And in that case, he should move out and let the gang support him.
2006-09-18 09:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I got one thing to say, if he does'nt do somethin he'll wind up in a box, and that's why is parents are actin like that dude.
they don't wanna bury their son, it may not happen now or in the next five years, but he's gonna wind up dead if he don't get his s**t straight.
he needs to ask himself if it's really worth puttin his family through that kinda grief.
not only that, does he really wanna have the stress of always lookin over his shoulder for someone to come up on him and start some s**t because he lives a few blocks in the wrong direction from there?
gettin in a gang only shows how little self esteem you have, and shows even more how little of a brain you have.
there's nothin he can do about his parents being upset with him, they just know that they could get a phone call in the middle of the night from the cops sayin that he got his A** splattered in a driveby shootin, run down in the street for wearin the wrong color clothes, or that he wound up gettin shot because he was runnin with other gang members who're doin stupid s**t in the first place!
he needs to grow him some F**kin' balls and get out of the gang.
Who said he can't quit the gang?!? the P***y A** Playa that's runnin the freak show?
just because of stupid s**t that happened 2 decades ago, and everyone's forgotten what really started this stupid game of you hurt me I hurt you back, doesn't mean he's got to continue it, he needs to be smarter than that and get a REAL LIFE!!!
He don't need anyone's permission to leave, especially someone who didn't raise him like his parents did.
Your boy needs to grow some balls in that shrivelled little sack of his, leave the gang, tell his parents he's sorry for being a COMPLETE DUMBASS, get back in school and get a diploma, plan on going to college for a degree,and maybe he'll live long enough to see his own kids grow up one day.
otherwise you'll prob'ly find his last good picture in the obituaries, and plannin to go to his funeral, feelin guilty as to why he's not around anymore
2006-09-18 15:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he can quit the gang and you can quit hanging around with losers that joing gangs.
He may have to change schools and stay out of sight for a while but the only reason he can't get out is if he doesn't want to.
If he chooses to stay in the gang (stupid stupid choice) then the gang needs to house and clothe him.
His parents are right to be angry and should lock him away until he gets his priorities straight.
2006-09-18 15:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by logical_centrist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First let me assume you mean the type of gang that is criminal or destructive in nature,
Why do you choose a friend who is obviously self-destructive? Do your parents know? Is it acceptable to your parents that you associate with a known gang member?
What is the appeal for you? What are the risks?
Yes. There are risks to you, to your future, your life, your own respectability.
2006-09-18 15:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by PJinLA 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has an simple choice. Be a thug head and give up your family or dump the gang crap. O by the way wanna choose the gang, move in with them too.... Not in my house!
2006-09-18 15:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
um....pop a cap in their @sses? Isnt that what the usual gang member does? Sounds like a p*ssy if he has to get permission to be in a gang....*oh yes here is your 9mm and a form that I need your parents to sign*
2006-09-18 15:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by Rae 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i was in a gang and belive me they can b very dangerous i have ended 3 months on intensive care when i told them i wnated t oleave. figths between other gangs, a leader we all should follow, drugs, alchohol, baaaaddddd !!!!!!! leave now !
2006-09-18 16:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Pavel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend to grow up, what the hell are gangs now? kids who wear red or blue and dont even know the meaning of it. grow up we're no in the 90's anymore!!!!
2006-09-18 15:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe he should move in with the gang and let them support him
2006-09-18 15:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Help him pick out his casket before he's shot.
Are you back at work being a fireman? The girls love it.
2006-09-18 20:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by the_wall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋