Cause I don't want to find someone that only likes me for my hot figure. I want someone to see past the fat, and love me for my personality. I still wanna lose weight though. What do you think?
2006-09-18 08:08:51 · 4 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, there are men out there who will like you for who you are inside and not after you loose weight. I went through the same thing. I truly think it is your self confidence that men are attracked to...If you are a confident woman and are not so consumed with your body...(how bad you feel about yourself)..I think it is a plus. I would say..try to get healthy and your eyes open and you will find someone...also be true..dont try to be what you are not...Good Luck and dont worry...
2006-09-18 08:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone loves you, they will love you at 250 lbs. just like they will at 125 lbs. Weight does not determine who you are or the emotions you feel. It is only an outward appearance and often one that we are judged by before knowing the person inside. If you want to lose weight, good for you. Just make sure you do it for yourself and not for the benefit of others.
2006-09-18 08:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by ncmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally, you would have found the perfect man because he loves you for who you are, not the person on the outside. Is it unreasonable? No, not at all. However, you might not find the type of man you are looking for at this present weight (physically); I know it sounds shallow, but sometimes certain type of people are attracted to the same type...if that makes any sense.
2006-09-18 08:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone loves you...they love you for who you are. no matter what your weight is. if they do only love you for your body, then they arent worth it.
2006-09-18 08:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋