2006-09-18 08:04:39 · 19 answers · asked by Win 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's safe to assume he's not the guy for you. Love yourself to expect more from someone you love.
2006-09-18 08:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by WiserAngel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably - he might be afraid to tell you how he feels, doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Which means he doesn't hate you or want you to hate him and just can't figure out a way to break it to you without it hurting.
But it could be that he is just moody or maybe has some problem that he is preoccupied with (school/work/family/money/feelings of inadequacy, etc).
It's often hard to tell which it might be, since we generally hope for the best - meaning we ignore subtle signs. People tend to hint at what they want and expect that others will understand the hints, but this is difficult, since hints can be subtle and what is a priority to one person may not be to another. So we miss the clues.
If you come right out and ask (in a way that doesn't put him on the defensive), maybe he will tell you which it is. Good luck.
2006-09-18 15:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by Yo it's Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and yes it is over! If I were you I would get anything that belongs to you that he has and dump him now! He is either going to dump you or has screwed someone else behind your back and trying to find a way to dump you. Men are cowards and want you to dump them first. That's why he is treating this way. HE WANTS YOU TO DUMP HIM! Stand up for yourself and tell him you deserve better than the way he's treating you and act like you could care less, never let them see you cry. He may come back begging you to forgive him. If I had more info I could give you better advice. Trust me I have been through it more than once I know what I'm talking about.
2006-09-18 15:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jani S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, the relationship may be pretty much over. But a lot of the time, people may be angry with you and do not know how to express themselves the right way--the adult way. Or they might be frustrated about something else, and still they do not know how to express it rather than lashing out and being mean to the nearest person.
2006-09-18 15:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt need to add negative. Ignoring is a pretty safe assumption that youre done!
2006-09-18 15:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, probably, but it drives me insane when guys do that. I'd rather hear it to my face than be told "Nothing's wrong!" while he ignores me and flirts with other women. I'd confront him about it, just to hear him say the words, but if you're not that type of person, then let it go and move on.
2006-09-18 15:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't assume anything. Just talk to him. If you're in a relationship, you should be able to communicate. Maybe something is bothering him that has nothing to do with you. Maybe you hurt him and don't know it. You won't know if you don't ask.
2006-09-18 15:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by abbya11111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is safe to assume that you are done with him. You don't deserve to be treated like that.
2006-09-18 15:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by LAUGHING MAGPIE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in somewhat the same position with my beau......men dont like to talk about what they are REALLY feeling and thinking.....you could think assuming he wants to end it...but he is thinking...whoa I am crazy about this girl...what do I do?......trust me it could be OR maybe its done like you said
2006-09-18 15:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because either they've decided to move on, or they've made incorrect assumptions and acted on them, which means you should let them go for being that stupid and not talking to you first.
2006-09-18 15:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋