What is the best way to make a long distant relationship last long?

Question

I am involved in a very good long distant relationship.It must last another 3years until we move togther.

Answer 1

Find ways to talk to each other. Internet, phone and letters are all good. If possible try to see each other as much as possible make sure you are looking your best when you see him/her this way they will remember what you look like and keep it in their hearts. Do things fun together if you ever get the chance to see him/her and take lots of pictures so you can send them to him/her so they will have that to remember. And believe me if it works out for another three years it was true love and you two will be able to get through anything, but for some reason it doesnt work out, it was for the best and the man/girl of your dreams is waiting for you.

Answer 2

You need 4 things: 1. You need to be introverted. That means you don't go out much, and would rather spend a weekend reading a book or watching tv, rather than going to parties and bars. 2. You need to keep to yourself. Getting involved with a lot of friends, especially of the opposite sex is going to cause you to question yourself and your significant other to be worried. 3. You need to dull yourself down. Don't try to look too attractive when you're out and about. The worst thing you can do is go fishing for attention, because you might be interested if some is shown to you. And lastly... 4. You're significant other has to obey the three rules listed above. Unless these are met, there are just too many temptations, too many people willing to step in and fill those emotional and physical needs that a long distance lover simply can't. Hope it goes well. Good luck.

Answer 3

Just do whatever your heart tells you to do. Continue doing what you have been doing! If you are still keeping a very good relationship that means the person likes you the way you are and for whatever you have done up to now. So keep it going on like this, and don't try to change anything, unless you are requested! If you haven't been doing that and wants something new, then just drop your partner a handwritten letter full of love :) Besides don't change anything unnecessarily!
Good luck and take care

Answer 4

Just be honest and try to talk either one the phone or messenger or email every day.

Also try and visit them or have them come and visit when you guys can.

I am currently in a long distance relationship. Last year was tought and we actually broke up near the end of the school year but we were able to talk about things in the summer and work things out and we are stronger now than before.

Just have faith, be honest, trustworthy and show how much you care.

Answer 5

Wow... good luck with that. I would try to communicate the best ways possible. The phone is the best way I can think of. Messengers aren't so great because their isn't much actual human contact. Visiting eachother as much as possible will help a lot. These long distance things are hard and can be pretty painful, but if you can pull it off, go for it.

Answer 6

Congratulations!!! On making it so good so far!! I had a long distance relationship that lasted 2 years, and might have lasted longer if it wasn't for different circumstances. Anyway, if you can, try to see them every couple of months, write hand written letters, and perhaps exchange things that either remind you of eachother, or smell like eachother. Sounds weird, means a lot. And, lots of phone calls...get cell phones and make sure you can have mobile to mobile...best money ever spent!

Answer 7

Be honest with each other
Never cheat
Stay in regular contact
Always talk honestly about your feelings
Try to be happy with your own company
Expect there to be times when you feel lonely

It can be done but you both have to want it to work and to be prepared for events like parties & weddings when you are dateless.
If you both want it enough it can be done I know I did it

Answer 8

trust is the most important. Juz let him or her knw where ever u wanna go, or with whom... not to ask for permission or make a report to him, juz to let him knw.

Answer 9

I think if you have trust and honesty with one another then you'll definitely make it work. If there is none I don't think it will:)

Answer 10

it needs patient , perseverence,hope ,having great faith and both of u being faithful and never loose ability to make each other laugh and communication.