She met some guy online before we met , was just hooking up with him, she was lonely.. She said they are just friends now, they only went out a few times, but she claims he is this great friend. I told her he is just looking to hook up again. It was just sex between them. What should I do?
2006-09-18 07:39:27 · 9 answers · asked by T C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you tell her , I aint the jealous type but you did hook up with the dude and it makes me a touch uncomfortable having you guys talk and bs so much , out of respect for my feelings can you stop talking to this dude ... If she balks or gives you some lip then just say Ok then I dont really feel this is a situtaion I can or want to deal and live with ,see ya later .........she needs to and should value your realtionship more than an old internet fling ......but the bottom line is you need to be honest and tell her how it makes you feel and then it is not some unreasonable thing , its your feelings and if she cant deal or starts making excuses , do not buy into it , its your feelings man ............good luck bro , and i do not in the least think you are being unreasonable , and if the roles weec reversed you can bet she is jealous as heck and wants you to break all ties with this person ,
2006-09-18 07:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don’t listen to the women in here. They’re all saying “don’t break-up a good thing between them”, etc. Are you serious? I would treat her situation with the other guy like an old boyfriend. Would you let your girl still chat, see, hook-up with her old boyfriend? I’m not telling you what to do, you’re a big boy. But If I were you I would treat him like an ex-boyfriend…decide on those facts what you should do.
2006-09-18 07:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by hailyankees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you know: 1) She calls him a great friend, and 2) she's hooked up with him. She's trying to keep both of you until she can make up her mind.
Dump her and move on.
2006-09-18 07:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by A S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she'd totally freak out if you were still "great friends" with a girl you had sex with. Tell her you don't like it. If she was just with him for the sex, then she should have no problem cutting off ties with him now that she has you. If she isn't willing to, move on... she's trouble waiting to happen.
2006-09-18 07:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her do whatever she wants, but keep a very watchful eye on her. this will also allow you to have "relationships" with other girls and it should be okay. if your gf really likes you, she will keep her distance from this other guy all on her own from fear of losing you.
2006-09-18 07:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by loveholio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOO..U SHOULD NOT...WHERE'S UR EGO AND SELF RESPECT....LETTING A GUY WHO HAD SEX WITH UR GIRL WITH HER AGAIN....FEELINGS ALWAYS COME BACK...
WHAT ABT POSSESIVENESS???...UR ALLOWING HER TO TALK WITH HIM SHOWS THE LACK OF LOVE B/W YOU....
STRAIGHT AWAY TELL HER...THAT ITS NOT O.K TO BE WITH HIM ANYMORE.....U DONTV FEEL COMFORTABLE AND SHE SHOULD IF NOT END BUT MINIMISE CONTACTING HIM SPECIALLY REAL MEETS......
2006-09-18 07:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by METICULOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go all jealous or she will dump you. Unless you catch them cheating let her talk to him.
2006-09-18 07:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be telling her how to get along with you better. why guys do the wierd shi* we do and stuff like that.
2006-09-18 08:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u know that ? u better don't spoil her other friends relationship
2006-09-18 07:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sumitha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋