Boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 6 weeks. We are both going through divorces (I filed for mine, she filed for his) Both divorces are final in another 6 weeks. His ex shows up at my home on Saturday and caused quite the scene. Called me every name under the sun and then damaged my front door and keyed his truck. Now, I am not responsible for their marriage failing... why is she being like this now? Is it the ole "I don't want him but don't want him to be with anyone else?" I am pressing charges against her for damage to property and disturbing the peace, but he won't pursue charges and she assaulted him and keyed the whole side of his truck right there in front of us. UGH!! I so fking pissed about the whole situation... I don't know what to do.
2006-09-18 07:30:03 · 9 answers · asked by sneakyfker 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first what you might have to think about, is that she could still be holding some feelings for your BF. You know they were married so am sure that there are some feelings still there even tho they are going threw the marriage. However, you are right she shouldnt have acted the way she did, but he might not be pressing charges because you know he is going thro a divorce with her so hes problibly not wanting anymore complications then there has already been. Next time she does this if she does, call the police, have her removed from your home. But forget about her and enjoy your nerw life.
2006-09-18 07:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your plan to lay charges. If you let it go she will never learn. If she does not learn to behave like an adult she might need a mental tune up. Him? He must have money. How much more damage will he allow to his truck? The next assault on him could be deadly. He's no better then she is for letting her get away with this. Wish you all the best of luck.
Take care.
2006-09-18 14:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just her rage over the whole situation. If she has not already found someone else then she is ticked of that she is alone and he is not. even though he is going through the divorce now....he is still not divorced. Just because you think it's over in 6 weeks she could use this against him and drag it out. In the eyes of the law he is still married. I would watch your steps until it is final.
2006-09-18 14:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's probably why he left her. He has plenty of stress to deal with right now. You do need to talk calmly to him about his never happening again and if he wants to continue seeing you he should support you and protect you if it happens again...even if it means filing charges. You should not have to deal things like that because he married a physco.
If he is not willing to stand by you in the future, its a sign to end it.
2006-09-18 14:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just don't want him to move on as fast as he did. she is probably jealous that he has someone else and she don't. i would kick her a$$ for it, but that's just me. if it's not your thing then talk to him and find out why he don't want to press charges and try talking him into it. that's all i know. but good luck dealing with the ex and i wish the best for you.
2006-09-18 14:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good start for the relationship. It's not a good sign at all.
2006-09-18 14:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's the kind of mess you're going to have to be going through it's not even worth it...you might get out of it before you're stuck
2006-09-18 14:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Lord said do unto other as they do to you!
2006-09-18 14:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge
2006-09-18 14:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by BIG WILLIE THE GEORGIA TITIAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋