Is sex ok out of marriage? the bible says-In marriage the bed is undefiled, others will be judged." Heb 13

Question

God gave his approval and blessing for sex-why should we disregard it and rebel against honor and marriage? Jesus is the giver of ultimate peace pleasure and joy-ive tried both ways-his way works-thanks. as Jesus says ye must be born again to see the kingdom of heaven-then walkin right keeps u feelin the best-in true happiness!

Answer 1

The Lord gives us commandments because he knows what will bring us happiness, peace, joy, and fulfillment.

Premarital sex is in most cases very much is just lust. Lust is all about our selfish needs. In a lustful relationship We would rather receive pleasure instead of giving. When you have sex with just anyone is giving your gift from god that is so precious to anyone.

It is the lie of a clergyman teaching premarital sex as a type of trial marriage that persuades a girl to lose her virtue. She may be naive or obtuse in accepting his word, but what a price he will have to pay at the judgment bar of God for saying there is no sin in premarital sex when he knows full well that the Almighty has thundered from the heights of Mt. Sinai: “Thou shalt not commit adultery.” (Ex. 20:14.)

Answer 2

I guess I am going to be a contrarion here after reading previous answers to the question.
Case in point; David and Bathsheba (before Bathsheba's husband Uriah died).
David and Bathsheba had sex.
The Bible gives no indication of it being 'rape'.
According to Mosaic law, the man and woman that had sex (outside of marriage) both the man and woman were to be stoned.
Adultery was a sin Ex. 20:14.
So were David and Bathsheba not stoned?
(Assertion by myself; Bathsheba was obeying the King (David). The Israelites were to obey the king (Christians; call it obeying the higher authorities; using a KJV term).
Is the difference man can see 5 things (who,what, when, where, how) but God sees why (1 Sam. 16:7)

Answer 3

Depends on who you ask. If you ask me, "Is sex okay outside of marriage"? I would say yes as long as you are smart and safe about it. However, I also don't believe/trust/have faith in organized religions, so I would tell you lots of things are okay. Just because the bibles 'says so' doesn't mean a lot to me and other people. Most people disregard Jesus this due to lack of self control, lack of evidence he is real, lack of belief, whatever...the list goes on. Sex is a human need for gratification and most people (religious or otherwise) like to test temptation and societies rules to see what its all about. Inside of a relationship, sex is always more acceptable anyway...unless you are a homosexual, then most hard core religious followers would give a left nut to kill you or convert you somehow.

I'm not saying it's wrong or entirely right, or people who believe sex is only for the married are wrong...but I strongly recommend you don't push those views where the sun won't shine.

Believe whatever you want, and shun whomever you want. Everyone is this world is entitled to their opinion until the day they die. If you don't like how people do things, you have no right for stepping in to change it.

Answer 4

Yes it's wrong for people to have sex before marriage. It's called fornication. That's why marriage was created for two people to make a vow to be true to each other until death due you part. So make sure that the one you one to go to bed is the one you want to spend the rest of your life together, otherwise forget it. You have to be careful too, cause you don't know what you can get, with disease going around like aids. Boys and girls think before you act. It can cause you your life.

Answer 5

David,
You are a Christian. Stop this evil and deceptive form of missionizing. It degrades Christianity.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApnC4dngKeRuGKyqQldbLd_zy6IX?qid=20060723102937AA4N2eb
. It is, by definition, impossible for it to be "jewish" to believe in jesus. "Jewish" is, by defintion, what jews have historically and contemporarily believe. Since in neither scenario do we find "believing in jesus", then we must clearly realize that belief in jesus is not something "jewish". You can call it "biblical" (and still be wrong), but certainly not "jewish".
. On the side, the subject of Isaiah 53 is promised a "long life" and "seed" (i.e. physical children). Clearly this isn't about jesus.
. And Isaiah 7 is clearly not messianic if you read the whole chapter. and "alma" doesn't mean virgin either. You'd know that if you spoke hebrew (I guess it wasn't part of your "extensive jewish upbringing", huh?)
. On the side, Isaiah 9 can't be about jesus since, according to christianity, he's the "son" not the "father" (as the verse states). Nor did he have control of the government (to the contrary, the roman government killed him). And he certainly did not establish "endless peace".
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Sources:
http://www.aish.com/jewishissues/jewishsociety/Why_Jews_Dont_Believe_In_Jesus.asp
http://jewsforjudaism.org/web/faq/general_messiah-criteria02.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jewish_messiah#Textual_requirements
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oh, and lastly, I've decided that you truly epitomize everything I find intensely intellectually unsatisfying about christianity. (And you clearly do not understand hebrew.)

Answer 6

No, it is not ok out of marriage. The reason for this is because God wants it to be safe and inside marriage. If having sex inside of marriage and something happens (pregnancy, etc.), the two people are more likely to stick together and pull through and not have to worry about the outcome and they won't have to feel guilty every time they have sex.

Answer 7

In our society, its really not that great of an idea to get married until after college. And theres no way I would have waited that long. But I sort of agree with you, sex is better inside of a relationship. Randoms just aren't the same.

Answer 8

I believe sex outside of marriage is a sin. That is a sacred thing between husband and wife.

Answer 9

sex out side marriage will neverbe as good as sex within marriage coz God made it for with in marriage.

Answer 10

In the bible sex means you are married.