Well he's almost my boyfriend. He's amazing, and we just click!But there is one problem. We kissed the other day and he was a bit nervous about it and afterwards said 'sorry, i'm rubbish at that'.i mean we're not dating yet, and some people are being really supportive and some of my so-called friends are slagging me already. What can i do to make him more confident about it?
2006-09-18 07:28:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that practice makes perfect and get practising!!!
2006-09-18 07:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about him, I think I'd let him know there is plenty of time to practice with you and when would he like to start. Oh about the friends - Your REAL friends will be supportive of ANYONE you select as they want you happy. The rest are not really important anyway because they are just around to be social. Don't be confused between friends and social acquaintances.
2006-09-18 07:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you have fresh breath and attractive teeth? If not, that can be a turn off to a guy. Or does he have a problem with his teeth? Maybe he won't be comfortable with it until he knows you better. There is no rush, especially if he isn't yet your boyfriend. And maybe he's one of those guys who knows kissing can lead to excitement which can lead to intercourse and he's not ready for that with you.
2006-09-18 07:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by LadyLgl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be the same way and it got to the point that people thought that i was freaky but in all reality it was because to me that was an invasion to my space and if i truly did not like the person that i was with. and that may be another problemm you too are not dating yet so that could be the big proble and don't freight about it it could just be that you too are not together yet.
2006-09-18 07:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by lover_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just lousy at kissing. Gay guys, I hear, are an exception, but I don't think you want to go there. Be gentle with him. Don't force the issue. And give him about 20 years before you expect progress.
2006-09-18 07:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by george f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha all people have different ways of kissing i always let the guy go in for the first kiss then i kiss him the way i wanna be kissed guide him through it and then tell him he is a great kisser everyince in a while its scarey for the guy but it will end up being really nice for both of you
2006-09-18 07:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect. Keep practicing, that is the best way to make him more confident. If you like his kisses, tell him so!! While you are at it, tell your friends to mind their own business. If you like the guy and you are happy, that is all that matters.
2006-09-18 07:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guy gets nervous about stuff like that, so take it easy on him till be becomes less nervous..trust me the same thing happened to me. I'm sure he will be less nervous before u even notice it.
2006-09-18 07:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by Bling Bling 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls instinctively know how to kiss, boys have to be taught. Sit him down and tell him you are going to teach him how to kiss and them give him a lesson or two.
2006-09-18 07:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliment him. Tell him that was the best kiss you ever had. And tease him asking how many girls have you kissed?
That will raise his confidance.
2006-09-18 07:30:52 · answer #11 · answered by The First 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋