lusted after and wanted someone for so long, and when you finally got with them you discovered you didn't really like them that much after all? what did you do?
i'm not talking about anyone in particular, but it has happened to me before. it's an awkward situation. just wondering if it has happened to many people.
2006-09-18 07:14:36 · 14 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it happened to me, and i am still stuck with him after 7yr's and 3 kid's later. lol if you find out how to let him go let me know. some thing's are better left to the imagination.
2006-09-18 07:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me, and to tell you the truth I had a better time lusting after this guy.....then when I got the real deal...
2006-09-18 14:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I loved him without knowing who he really is for 3 months. after that we got together and I realized that he was not what I wanted so I broke up with him. do not remain in a relationship if you know from the start it's not gonna last!
2006-09-18 14:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that happened to me. she was my former boss. i would sit and fantisize about her constantly for about two years. i quit the job and ran into her some time later. we did it. and it was just o.k.. i think this happens because in our fantasies everything is always perfect. no skin blemishes. no funky smells, etc.. when we finally get the person, the reality has no chance of living up to the fantasy. so i guess we're setting ourselves up for disappointment. good ? though.
2006-09-18 14:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this seems to occur when people alter their behaviours to "win" each other ... its built on a total falacy so of course it fails ... be yourself, get to really know the other person socially for about 6 months, observe how they treat others(not you), that will give you an idea of what they are really like when they relax and aren't "wooing" you ... when you "play" to win, you lose
2006-09-18 14:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, many years ago when i was in 5 year of senior school. i fancied this girl who was lovely and funny and always made remarks about the bulge in my pants. then one day i found the courage to ask her on a date. we went to the cinema then finished off with a pizza. great night.UNTIL. we went back to her pad and started getting serious on her mums sofa. she aroused me with a good hour of oral sex. wow it was great. so i thought.right.i am going to repay the compliment. i knealt down and pulled down her panties and then fook me. you couldnt of suprised more if you had slapped my face with a wet kipper. from inside her panties flopped a bigger penis than mine. i didnt know what to do so i just stood up, pulled up my trollies and said that reminds me i forgot to get my mother a packet of nuts from the offy.
2006-09-18 15:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
not exactly like that, but some times i miss my boyfriend so much, i feel like i want to hold him and just squeeze, i'm wondering if i'm gonna survive the time being without seeing him, and when i finaly see him, it's just like every other day i see him.
2006-09-18 14:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it happens all the time it rarely seems to work because you put them on a pedestal and when you get with them you see what they are really like
2006-09-18 14:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by tim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did & i do think that it's just our urge to have something or someone that we don't..and then, once you have what you want, you just realize that you never really like them..it's the the normal thing with men, liking what we don't have since we are never contented of what we already have..Ã
2006-09-18 14:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have - still do. Sometimes its great and I want them again and again - sometimes it has not been that great. I just slowly let them down, and talked to them less and less.
2006-09-18 14:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋