i dumped my ex a few weeks ago and i completely regret it. he got a new girlfriend but everytime she hugs him he gives her a weird look and makes up an excuse to leave. him and his gf have only hugged 4-5 times and theyve been going out 16 days.everytime he sees me he smiles and i blush. !!!
i want him back but how do i tell him or wat do i do?
2006-09-18 07:02:50 · 25 answers · asked by HeadfirstForHalos11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 12 and so is he and his gf.
lol im too young for this. but at least im in high school!!
2006-09-18 07:05:53 · update #1
thanks a lot elegante - y do u even come on this thing if all u do is insult ppl?
2006-09-18 07:07:38 · update #2
dont tell me im too young! in my schools we had bfs and gfs in p6 and p7 and we know what were doing so dont think we know nothing coz we do!
lol i had to get that off my chest lolzz
2006-09-18 07:13:22 · update #3
Tell him how you feel ..he might want to go back out with you and is just using her to make you jealous.
2006-09-18 07:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you are feeling, even at twelve and I can tell you that though you are very young, I understand that the pain of losing someone who is very dear to the heart is as painful as if you were to be older! But you should agree with me that there is still a very long way for you to go and you still have an awful lot to learn! There are many things which you'll learn about it first and experience afterwards. But there are also other things which you'll experience first and then you'll learn about it. This is what is happening to you. You are actually experiencing something you have never learn before and that thing is the remorse for probably making a wrong decision. Well, such kind of things will happen again in your life, but you should care to learn about your mistakes and care not to repeat them again. That's the real way to learn, trial and error!
Now as far as your ex-bf is concerned, if you really want fancying a chance coming back to you, then just try this: Just try to ignore him and don't let him have the impression you are suffering! I know its quite hard as your heart is craving for him, isn't it! But try to replace your heart with a stone for sometime and just don't care about him. Talk to other boys, and show him that there won't be any apocalypse if he is with someone else and not with you. Who knows if you adopt such kind of attitude, he might just become jealous and come back to you! Become a strong girl! And if you don't mind learning something from me, whatever is yours will come back to you, and whatever isn't will never be yours, no matter how hard you try! Plus, you only get what you deserve, so if ever your ex doesn't come back to you, then you know you deserve someone better than him. You just have to be a little bit more patient!
Be a good girl!
take care
2006-09-18 08:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Goldenheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must think about the occasion that you didn't really mean sth to him as he found a new gf so soon after your breaking up.
You can talk to him. That's the best to do. If you don't want to talk to him then try writting him an e-mail or letter but i still think a conversation face to face is the best. Tell him you regret breaking up with him and explain him why you did that and that you want to try for your relationship, to give it another chance. But be sure of what you feel.... Why did you dump him?... Maybe you have erase the bad moments of your mind? Try to make clear what your feelings are before you go talk to him.
Hope i helped! Good luck
2006-09-18 07:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by smaragda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just gotta say this, i was your age once. and went through similar expericences but i was 1yr older. my advice would be think about what you want. stuff his new gf. he wants you and You want him, because you have regrets about loosing him there must be something in it. when i got back with my girl we were together for 5 yrs. it was a great experience. one i often look back on now with no regrets. my 1st love. i wish you all the best what ever your desision.
2006-09-18 07:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by craigs @ peugeot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok even though i think ur young, even though u hate ppl saying it, cos beleive me wen ur about 18 u'll look back at this and think how stupid was i, we all do. but ur ex still likes u, obviously he's not into his new gf if he gives her funny looks if she hugs, but it's not end of the world ok, don't be desperate. u shud thinkin about ur studying than looking for a bf, lol
2006-09-18 07:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look u r way 2 young for this stuff i suggest u get over him it will do u both a favour besides r u forgeting that u r jus 12???what do u know about relationships & boys?its only a crush trust me !!
2006-09-18 07:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by britney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure he nos u stil lik him
and try 2 win him bak
or it'll b 2 l8 & he will really b in love wiv her
make sure u dont hurt the other girl 2 much or she'll try 2 get him bak
2006-09-18 07:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Smile-for-me :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 12,you're too young to worry about all this
2006-09-18 07:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sum ppl on ere are reali nasty the gurl was only asking for sum help!! if u really want your ex back but really think about it just tell him how you feel before its too late x x
2006-09-18 07:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen up now: If you dumped him just forget it move on
with your life dont see him no more because repeating that
old relationship is not worth much any thing
2006-09-18 07:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋