Help Me Out!!?

Question

My husband is trying to be a rapper/record producer and all his time goes into this. He is really good and is going to go somewhere, but he never takes a moment away for me or our 3 year old. I already tried the talk but I dont want to take him from his dream. Any ideas?

Answer 1

KEEP ENCOURAGING HIM IF HS'S GOOD....WHY DON'T TRY BEEING WITH HIM WHEN HE PRACTISES??....THERE YOU CAN APPLAUD HIM..ADMIRE HIM...HE WOULD BE HAPPY TO SEE YOU ENJOYING AND PRAISING...THEN TRY SPENDING SOME MOMENTS WITH HIM....BUT NOT DAILY FROM TIME TO TIME....TRY TO MAKE HIM SEE UR 3 YR OLD CHILD....HIS SMALL TALK..HIS GROWING ....HIS NEW ACTIVITIES..SO THAT HE ENJOYS BEING WITH HIM...STILL DO NOT TRY TO IMPOSE URSELF...BUT JUST TELL HIM ONCE AGAIN..THAT HONEY WE ALSO EXIST....DON'T WANNA BE DISTRACTION BUT WE ARE FAMILY...AND IN LIFE NOTHING IS IMPORTANT THAN FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Write this down in a big piece of paper.
1. If you were to die tomorrow.
2. You would be replaced at work, within 3 bussniss days.
3. But your family will never replace you or forget you.
The paste a picture of you and only u! Holding your daughter.

Answer 3

If he's already like this and not doing this as a career yet think of how he will be if he does make it big. I don't know I think once you have a kid it's time to stop dreaming and face reality (for your child's sake) If I were you I'd tell him to look for a more realistic career.

Answer 4

You have 2 choices.

Either say something to him and demand the attention you and your child deserves.

Or

Do nothing about it and support him in his dream, wait till he makes it big and hope he'll make time then.


Good Luck

Answer 5

be patient and tell him how you feel. schedule some family time twice a week . see if that works

Answer 6

it's only temporary.

schedule time with him on a weekly basis --but be really, really flexible.