2006-09-18 06:39:37 · 8 answers · asked by thisgurliscrazey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know what you are talking bout because me and you are n the same place right bout now but mines was 4 years. We talk n all but he has a girl but he wants me back but neways, I mean if you want to know where you went wrong then you got to get it out of him neway u put it drag it out.Its gotta be something you did or its might have been something he did. But if you need to find out that bad then you sit down and have a talk. I mean serious talk if you really love him. If you dont have the same feelings then dont worry about it. Like my saying boys come and go but friends are always there to stay. You can always have a friend in him even if he dont want to be with you..... but you have the talk okay. Much love and i wish you the best
2006-09-18 06:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by SiSi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 13 years. We stopped talking, were pretty much living 2 lives and slept in the same house. I had been thinking of leaving, a little over a month ago he told me it was over. We both talked to a minister, and realized that we really had no problems with each other-but had forgotten to take the TIME to notice each other, to remember WHY we fell in love in the first place. We are better now than we have been in years because it made us realize how silly little things in life can make you forget what is important.
Guess what I am saying is this-try to talk to him. If that wont work, try to get a middle person to talk to you both alone first, and then together. If things still are not going in the right direction and he does not seem bothered by it, then go on in life.
Best of luck in whatever you decide!!
2006-09-18 13:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by bear parties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give us much information to go on. Has his behavior changed? Has he become short tempered with you? Are you whining a lot? Are you too demanding? Are the two of you just bored with each other? Do you need to do some new, fun things together? You say "he never tells"...you need to find a way to communicate with him but do it intelligently and avoid hysterics. If he is pulling away, you don't want to scare him more.
2006-09-18 13:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a convo with him. Just cause someone doesn't say I love you, it doen't mean they don't. He could have just got cofortable enough, but to be on the safe side just talk to him.
2006-09-18 13:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Laurel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him girl, maybe he is getting bored with you.. and if there is no understanding than spice up your love life and everything else.. if that doent work than make him jealous but dont cheat, try to make him realize that he has something good b4 it's gone..have him chase you for a bit... just to see what's up with him.... goodluck girl...
2006-09-18 13:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better sit down for a all out talk.If you cant do that it wasnt love just playing.
2006-09-18 13:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a free world...so he can leave u hanging forever..I think its time to move on before you become an old maid
2006-09-18 13:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by jercha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is key in any relationship and uve seemed to lose yurs!
2006-09-18 13:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by eddie a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋