2006-09-18 06:38:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is always a reason, and for the person who broke up with you i am sure he thinks it a good one.
Stop worrying about why, maybe it was something you did or didnt do, what does it matter?
maybe it was something he did or didnt do. So What.
pick up your pride and move on. life is too (way too) short to wallow in suspence and regret.
If you ask him why you may not like what he may say.
it may be the truth or it might be a lie to spare you more pain.
(we always say its not you, its me)
There are, to quote a clique' Plenty of fish in the Sea.
break out that rod and reel and go fishing.
2006-09-18 06:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, I hate to tell you this, but people rarely break up for "no reason." There is almost always an explanation behind why someone wants to end a relationship....the problem is that they usually don't have the guts to tell the other person about it.
Would it really help if you knew why he didn't want to see you anymore? I know that you might want to get some closure on this issue, but I think it would probably only hurt you more if he came out and told you, "I've met someone else"...."I've decided you're not the one for me"...."I'm just not attracted to you anymore"....etc., etc.
I know how hard it is to be dumped for "no reason" (from personal experience)! The thing I want you to remember, though, is that the fact that he just doesn't want to be with you anymore is reason enough.
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? You're WAY better than that, hon, and I know you deserve better!
Take care of yourself...my thoughts and prayers are with you.
2006-09-18 06:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is many reasons why he would break up with you, try asking him the motive behind his decision. He could have never been in love with you for the first place, or he found someone else, or maybe he just needed a break for sometime.
Best way to find out, is ask him personally.
2006-09-18 06:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 03:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If, in fact there is no reason, and he simply is walking away from the relationship, then you have answered your own question --- he's a jerk.
I think however, you will find out eventually there was a reason (a good one not) for him to want out.
Look deep, you may actually know the reason but are not ready to admit so.
2006-09-18 06:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe he just felt things were moving to fast for him and he needed time to think about where he wants you guys to stand....he prolly wants to date other girls to see if he truely loves you! or he has his reasons why but he doesnt want to tell you what they are right now because he doesnt want to hurt you because it might be something personal that he isnt ready to share with you right now so just be patient but if he doesnt come back in a couple of weeks then forget about him and move on but just move on right away because then he will think you are on the rebound and hurt him worse because of how fast you moved on and some guys dont like that.
2006-09-18 06:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he's a jerk and doesnt respect you enough to give you a reason.
2006-09-18 06:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Melia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to play the field. At least he isn't stringing you along.
2006-09-18 06:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has someone else in his life or he is very confused. If he did that trust me you dont need him.
2006-09-18 06:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was most likely bored...guys tend to get that way...but don't worry because some where out there....there is a guy who gets bored without you around him...
2006-09-18 06:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by littlebittyprettyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋