This is strange but true. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship. We are best friends and have vowed to be completely honest with each other about everything. Her birthday is coming up and she has told me that she doesn't want jewlery or clothes. She says that she wants to do something naughty for her 25th birthday. Something completely out of character. She wants a stripper in a private hotel room. She said that she would pay back on my birthday. Any fantasy I wanted. I agreed--it may not sound like it but she is actually a good girl..she's been faithful.. Well, she has obviously put some thought into it because she recently said that she has decided upon a muscular, black stripper., completely naked. Ground rules are this: no touching but no sex. I searched forever for her stripper without luck. Finally, I found a guy at my gym. Only, his rule is this: his g-string comes off only if she removes her panties. When i told her, she just smiled and said it was up to me. Should I?
2006-09-18 06:28:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
I woulnd't. It would bug me forever. I would probably bring it up in future fights and use it against her.
2006-09-18 06:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are cool with it id say go for it. Make sure the guy at your gym knows that no sex is involved. I would say that the no panites for your girl is out. You dont want anything slick to happen with this guy. I would just get a stripper and once he is at the hotel then she can can negotiate with the guy to show off his package, no stripper is going to agree to that over the phone. Make sure you have the same happen at your party. Good luck.
2006-09-18 13:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by PHILLYGUY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So instead of hiring a professional you went to the gym and picked up some random guy. The guy is definitely in it for more than just a strip tease. You are just asking for trouble. Do you guys have an open relationship? Are you going to be there when this is happening? I guess it all depends on how much you really trust your girlfriend. If you are asking us about it then you have some issues. I wouldn't do it if I were you.
2006-09-18 13:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u are not sure NO!!! this could end up in a ruined relationship, you see even if it is just harmless fun, there is a chance that afterwards you could start to have serious doubts what i am trying to say is, not that u will be jealous but this question will be at the back of ur mind, does she prefer him to me?? is she only asking because she wants something different, by all means let he rif it will not damage ur confidence but uncertanty is a clear instinctual thing that is telling you to say NO, if my bf asked me if he cud hav afit bird as a stripper to strip 4 him i would say no and give him a better offer by saying, ill be ur stripper 4 the night and ur sex slave, u can do with me as u wish, and i will do whatever u want hehe
2006-09-18 13:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by English gothic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stripping rules is: Touching but not sex.
The customer is the one that pays the stripper for the stripper to stripp and dance and it doenst work the other way around.
If you dont want to be talk at your gym for ever, try fullfilling your fantasy in other way, or try finding another guy. I think your are asking for trouble.
2006-09-18 14:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently you are not OK with this or you would not be seeking the advice from a bunch of strangers. tell your gf you are not completely comfortable with the arrangement. ask if she would agree to let you be almost naked with another girl and be 100% OK with it. if nothing else at least find another stripper that is willing to at least let her keep her clothes on
2006-09-18 15:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by heather B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, no, no, no....bad idea. i think in these types of situations one little compromise or action can lead or progress into something bigger or worse....it's just gonna fester and get ugly with no good end result. besides if the situation was turned around and you wanted a stripper but the stipper only agreed to do it if you were completely naked, i doubt your girlfriend would go for it.
2006-09-18 13:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are certainly asking for trouble. You are basically inviting a stranger into your relationship. Don't do that if she wants to shake things up then shake them up with you not some stripper.
2006-09-18 13:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!!!!!!!! It is his job to do the stripping. He's getting paid for this, right? I wouldn't go with this guy. Find someone else. I know you are having trouble doing that but there has to be reputable companies out there.
2006-09-18 13:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by 1loopyferretpsycho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh...no. I am a jealous person and the thought my my boyfriend looking at another girls crotch is enough to make me sick. I personally would not be able to handle that. You should do whatever you feel comfortable doing.
2006-09-18 13:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by XiE18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you feel comfortable don't do anything that is going to upset you because that will be the end of your relationship.
2006-09-18 13:32:22 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋