I've been in a relationship with someone for almost a year and I still don't know if he's right for me.
2006-09-18 06:01:30 · 25 answers · asked by November 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After he breaks your jaw ....then you know he's not right.....Just kidding If you've been going out with him for a year and you still don't know....then that's your sign to jet right there....A YEAR? You should have been outta there.
2006-09-18 06:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, let me start by saying a year might be sufficient time for some to know but there are those of us that need more time. At this stage there is no need to end your relationship based on the fact that you do not know if he is the one. Take things slow. Get to know him better. If after 3 years you still don't know you need to think about leaving. Notice i didn't say to do it, i said think about it. You need to ask your self what are you looking for in a man exactly and put it with his qualities and see what you get. Right now though, you need to take it slow. One year is not enough time to know someone.
2006-09-18 13:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Osun Iya Mi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u guys are still 2gether riht so theres obviouly some connection there i have arguements with my boi friend of almost 2 years all the time and theres time im just ready to say good bye but then i relize if i just leave then it could mean i notstrong enough to be in the relationship with arguments if u can get through those hard times then u guys were ment to be
2006-09-18 13:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by ayani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this, do ya'll have fun when ya'll just hang, do ya'll laugh at each others jokes, do you feel safe when your in his arms,do you think about him while he's gone, does your heart skip a beat when he calls you, can you trust him with anything, do you miss him,even if he walks in another room, would he do anything for you,can he make you smile even when your day has hit rock bottom,etc. if you said yes to all of those or even a few than he's still the one!!!
2006-09-18 13:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should know by now. but if things are okay in general and you are happy, why not stick with him. after all you have the rest of your life for Mr right to come along. and well maybe things between you and your guy will bloom in the mean time....
2006-09-18 13:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by loopy lass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship is getting bored, or can't imagine you being with him in 10 years, you should leave. Don't loose time.
2006-09-18 13:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it is emotionally and physically draining is a good indication. Also when you spend most of your time with that person arguing instead of being happy together.
2006-09-18 13:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Indiana Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you pretty much answered your own question. You aren't sure about him. So move on. break it off now before it's 5 years down the road and you still aren't sure
2006-09-18 13:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on girl, get a grip! you'll definitely feel it within yourself if it would be better to call it quits than to stay in a stagnant relationship...love grows, u know..
2006-09-18 13:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by mashka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts, it is time. What kind of relationship? Marriage? Shack up? Friends?
2006-09-18 13:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋