First the Theatre...then onto the Movies....followed by lunch at a 5 Star Resturant...afterwards on to the Clubs...or a quite drink in a Bar....would a women appreciate this....Do you drop the women off at home afterwards, and wait for her to call you the next day
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2006-09-18 05:51:57 · 38 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take her directly to a nice restaurant with an bar. That way you can eat, talk to her, and get a few drinks. You both can learn more about each other in a more calm setting...
2006-09-18 05:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a lovely date although it might be a bit too much. Why don't you go to the theatre OR movies then do everything else you said. And of course drop the woman home first but don't try anything! Wait for your call and then if theres a following date (which i'm guessing there would be) take her to the place you didn't choose on the first date i.e. cinema or theatre. Sounds like it would be a great first date!!!
2006-09-18 05:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mary R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like the idea of taking someone to the movies or a theater for a first date, because these activities involve the two of you to be quiet. First dates should be in environments where you are able to talk a lot and find out about each other. Take someone to a place that personally interests you. Such as, if you like to golf, take her to a putt-putt where it can be fun and also a lot of talking time and laughs. Don't take her to a 5 star restaurant unless you can really afford it. You want to give a good first impression, but don't waist a lot of money on your first date. The club is a good idea to drink and dance, but be polite and don't let her get too tipsy. When you drop her off...ask her if you can call her again and if so, then give her a couple of days before you call. Ask her for another date. If she asks why you waited a couple of days before calling her then tell her that you didn't want her to feel that you are pushy or obsessive.
2006-09-18 06:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Novotny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are trying to hard Zack..... I would do the theatre then a late dinner and then maybe a bar afterward or an evening stroll (luckily I've got a river near me) 1st date, never drop the woman back home, but make sure she is put into a licensed taxi (make a note of the license number), pay the driver handsomely..... and while she is on the way home, call her home number and leave a message stating that you hoped she got home ok and perhaps she would like to do it again soon and that you will call her in a couple of days to arrange the details.
(then you should actually call her to arrange the details)
2006-09-18 06:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by James M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Err.... no. Firstly, I would only take one woman.
Quiet drink or light tea comes first (chatty, chatty) then either movies or theatre not both. Then meal proper and maybe a stroll someone nice, weather permitting, or a boat trip if u in London maybe.
Then home. Wait 48 hours and send a reminder, asking if she'd like the same again.
How ya going to do the clubs if you wearing the same clothes you wore to the theatre/movies huh? Don't do clubs on the first date, you might find she leaves with someone else.
2006-09-18 06:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Tertia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That in my opinion is far too much for a first date. I personally would prefer a nice meal (it doesn't have to be five star!) so that I could get to know you little, then on to a bar or club for a few drinks. Yes it's nice to drop the lady home but don't necessarily wait for her to call you it is OK for you to make the next move!!! Good Luck
2006-09-18 05:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the theatre and the movies??! Too much pal! She'll be exhausted!
Do one or the other - depedning which one you think she'll enjoy more - don't just be fancy for the sake of it...and lunch after is good, cos you can chat about the show/film.
Definitely drop her off at home, and maybe pick her up before the date too if you can. You should call her the next day, or send a text message, so she knows you like her. Don't smother though, just be straight - don't play games.
Enjoy! x
2006-09-18 06:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theatre and movies. too much "watching" pick one and roll with it. Go with lunch or the club not both.
I like to think of a first date as an interview for a date. Early dinner or lunch. Late drink after dinnner. Why spend money on chicks before you even know if your going to hit it off. Great second date.
2006-09-18 06:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds fun but at the same time maybe a little bit too much. drop the 5 star restuarant lunch and just go where she likes to eat-it will mean more to her than you trying to impress her. the clubbing i find okay as long as it is a good club. then drop her off home if you picked her up since it is called a date, right? and afterwards it does not matter who calls whom first-that is so HS-as long as someone is doing it.
2006-09-18 05:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little to much for a first date. You don't want to wear the lady out. Try the theater and then a 5 star restaurant and see how that works for ya.
2006-09-18 05:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by chinagirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋